It took getting a divorce for you to realize how important your marriage really was to you. Can you save your marriage after a divorce or is it too late altogether to make things work between you and your wife? You don't want to sit around the rest of my life and regret letting the best thing that has ever happened to you slip through your fingers. You're ready to make the changes you need to make if it's possible to get her back. Really, you just want your family back – including your wife. What do you need to do to make that happen?
The Sad Truth
As sad as it seems, there are many men, just like you, who didn't realize how much they had until it was gone from them. The grass on the other side of the fence always looked a little bit greener, didn't it? Now that you're on the other side of the fence and living the single life you realize just how great you had it at home with kids who love you and a wife who really did believe you were the greatest man on the planet. She may not have fawned all over you all the time but she did make you feel loved and wanted and that's a lot to build a marriage on. It's a great start at least.
Is it Too Late?
But you're all about the facts and right now the facts seem to say that it's too late to save your marriage. You are divorced after all. The good news for you though is that divorce is just a legal matter. It's not a set in stone ending that can never be overcome. You can still make a go of your marriage if you want to – even after you've been through the pain and heartache of divorce. It's not at all too late to make your marriage work.
You just might face a few unexpected challenges along the way. The best way to deal with these challenges is to put your ex at ease by overcoming them before they are even presented. What does that mean? It's simple. Sit down and make a long list of all the objections you believe she's going to raise to avoid giving your relationship another chance and repudiate them to her before she even mentions them. This will show her that you're serious about saving your relationship and that you've really thought things through.
You can save your marriage after a divorce. It's very possible to do so. But you're going to need to decide that your marriage is worth fighting for – and fighting hard – before you make a single step to try to get your ex back after a divorce.
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