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Did I Ruin My Marriage – Is It Too Late To Stop My Divorce?
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Has your marriage had more than its fair share of ups and downs over the years? Lately though, does it feel like things have been much more down than up? You may realize that you had your own role to play in the way things are turning out for your marriage. You can't help but wonder, "Did I ruin my marriage by waiting? Is it too late to stop my divorce?" You also want to know if there's anything you can do to make things right again. You do not want your marriage to end like this. You know there is still love there. You just want to know what you can do to make your marriage work when it seems so hopeless.

Many marriages face this moment. Some end. But not all do. If there is love and if both of you are willing to give your marriage a second chance there's no reason you can't make it work. But, it only takes one of you working to save your marriage to make all the difference in the world. You don't have to both be on board to make your marriage work from the beginning. Don't give up if your spouse isn't ready to commit just yet. You just have to be willing to pull a larger share of the load until you get your spouse on board.

It's probably safe to say that you've learned by now that love alone isn't enough to make a marriage work. You're going to need a little more than love. In fact, it takes work to make your marriage work. More than that, it takes time, attention, and the ability to make your marriage a priority for both of you instead of only giving it what little bit of attention and effort is leftover at the end of the day. If you want to save your marriage these are the simple rules you need to follow.

• Set aside time every day to spend with just your spouse. Write it on the calendar in big bold red letters and make this an appointment that can't be changed. • Learn to GIVE your spouse what he/she needs and ASK your spouse for what you need. This is the single MOST important gift you can give your marriage. When the needs of both parties are being met everyone in the family benefits. • Stop holding grudges. They do nothing to benefit the marriage and only tie you down and hold your marriage back.

These are just three simple rules you can follow to make your marriage better than it's ever been before. You can even get your ex back if you weren't able to save your marriage the first time around by following these rules as long as you have a solid strategy in place for what comes next.


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mark36  

My name is Mark, from USA. I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit, I meant a man who’s name is DR Moko he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the woman i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 years. I really loved her, but her mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 4 days when i returned to Canada, my Girlfriend called me by herself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and she got a new job interview, so we get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my girlfriend name. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my wife also got the new job and our lives became much better, You can contact him on this email: Mokospellcaster@gmail. com

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  about 6 years ago
mark36  

My name is Mark, from USA. I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit, I meant a man who’s name is DR Moko he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the woman i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 years. I really loved her, but her mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 4 days when i returned to Canada, my Girlfriend called me by herself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and she got a new job interview, so we get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my girlfriend name. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my wife also got the new job and our lives became much better, You can contact him on this email: Mokospellcaster@gmail. com

Reply
  about 6 years ago
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