You can see the writing on the wall and you know your wife is thinking about leaving. What you don't know is what you're doing wrong or why she's so unhappy in your marriage. You want to make your marriage work but you don't even really know what's wrong. What you really want to know is, "How can I stop my divorce and make my wife love me again?" You know things haven't been that terrible between you. It just seems like she's drifting further and further away from you. It hurts to see her inches away night after night and feel like you're on different planets. What can you do?
There are few things in life more painful than watching the person you love most in the world slip through your fingers. But that doesn't have to be how your story and the story of your marriage ends. It's too early in the game to give up on happily ever after. You might have to work a little harder to get that storybook ending you've always dreamed of. You might even have to make a few adjustments in your own expectations in order to get it but it is within your grasp.
There is one thing you can do fairly quickly though that will help you get your wife to at least consider the possibility that your marriage could be saved. You might have to swallow your pride a little bit to do it – no, it has nothing to do with begging – but the potential rewards are definitely worth a little bit of discomfort. You are going to have to go back in time and sweep your wife off her feet all over again. Remind her how it feels to be IN LOVE with you. Sometimes, loving someone gets boring, old, or stale. Being in love always feels new, fresh, and exciting. If you want to get your ex back or keep your wife from becoming your ex-wife, then you're going to have to get back in the practice of winning her heart all over again.
The amazing thing about this tactic for saving your marriage is that the more you practice making her fall in love with you the more often she'll fall in love with you. The secret to a long and happy marriage is that you keep falling in love with each other so that the excitement and thrills never stop. The best part is you've already done it once so you definitely know how it's done.
It doesn't take expensive gifts, permanent personality changes, or endless hours of marriage counseling to make your marriage work or save your marriage from divorce. This one thing will do the trick like nothing else can. You just need to come up with an excellent plan to make it happen.
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