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There’s ton of information out there about how to save your relationship or how to get your ex back. And it occurred to me that maybe some of you may looking for some help on how to end a relationship. If that’s the case then here are some tips that may help you with this painful deed.

I don’t think there is anyone out there that enjoys having to end a relationship but sometimes it becomes a necessary thing that has to be done and someone has to make the first move to end it. So, is it possible to end a relationship where neither side gets hurt? I would say probably not.

The first thing you have to is get it straight in your mind why the relationship must end, and you must be sure about this. Sometimes the first thing that comes to mind is not always the real reason so, be clear on this. The next step is to get honest, be honest to yourself and be honest to your mate.

I know this sounds callous but you are going to have to schedule a time or a date if you will to end the relationship. It is much better to do this face to face than over the phone, that is unless you never cared to begin with. I think that one of the worst things you can do to a person is break-up with them through a voicemail or a text message. Of course if distance is an issue then you have no choice but to use the phone, because it’s better to get on with it then prolonging the inevitable.

Once you are together, get compassionate, if it is your intentions to remain friends, you still must bring the love and romance end of it to its conclusion. Don’t get defensive or put your mate on the defensive. Talk about the things you will miss about them, the things you loved about them. Your partner will probably be very emotional, show patience and understanding, and ignore harsh words and insults.

You may have to meet more than once to end the relationship, or they may need time, that’s ok, give them what they need. But whatever you do, don’t let them make you feel guilty or you try to make them feel guilt, this is not a time to assign blame. If your partner asks about re-connecting, that’s something you will have to decide. There is no relationship that can’t be saved, but if your mind is made up then it’s best to make a clean break.


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