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Divorce. It's the word that's floating around in both yur minds. You have problems that just seem to big to handle. So the word lingers. It's too terrible to consider at times. At other times it seems to be the only logical course of action. What happened to the love? When did you stop rushing home to see one another after a long day at work? Where has all the love gone? It's not like you changed and become different people but some days it feels like you are complete strangers living in the same house. Is divorce the only answer for you? Is it too late to save your marriage and start over?

Divorce is never an easy option or a simple solution. It's hard. It hurts. It leaves more than two people devastated and aching in its wake. But it is not always the wrong choice for couples to make. It isn't always the right choice either. But divorce is NEVER the ONLY answer – even if it seems like the most logical solution for your marital problems. There is always another answer if you're both willing to look long enough and work hard enough to make it happen. The real question is this: how hard are you willing to look for an alternative to divorce for your marriage?

There is one alternative to divorce that will save you both countless hours of heartache and pain. It will take a little work in the beginning but once you've changed a few habits you'll find that some of the work feels a lot like play for both of you. In fact, over time and with a lot of practice you'll find that it feels like the normal course of your marriage than some attempt to save your marriage from the brink of divorce.

Here are some of the things you can do that will make your marriage stronger and keep you both happier for many years to come.

Make time for each other every day. You don't have to spend a lot of time together every day but you do need to spend some time together, just the two of you. This is time that needs to be devoted to each other and your marriage. This is not time to discuss what's going on with the kids, the events on your calendar, or how your day at work went. This time is the time when your bond to each other will become even stronger and is vital to the life of your marriage.

So many couples run out of things to say to each other fast if they aren't discussing children, family, work, or other mundane things. Use this time well to advance your love for each other and the health and well-being of your marriage. This is a simple step that can make a world of difference if you're trying to save your marriage or even if you need to get your ex back after a divorce.

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