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I Want To Get Married – What Do I Do?
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I Want To Get Married – What Do I Do?

You should not have to put a lot of effort into getting your boyfriend to marry you. If your guy doesn’t want to get married is it all right to railroad him into it? Seriously, if you have to trick him into proposing, what does that say about the relationship? A relationship is supposed to be built by two people who share common goals and convictions, isn’t it?

I guess I’m just a little old-fashioned, but I don’t think a girl should have to resort to tricks and deception in order to get a guy to propose. Rather than spend your time worrying and wondering when and if he’s going to go there; you should focus on making sure you are a woman worth asking. Yes, I said it. Out loud, too!

A guy wants a woman who is self-assured, knows who she is and is comfortable being herself. Women who are honest, trustworthy, kind, and fun should have no issues with finding a guy who wants to get married. Most likely, the main problem will be deciding which one is the right guy for her.

You will notice I said nothing about being beautiful, or even pretty. It’s not really such a big deal if you aren’t a beauty queen, or even if you have a little extra weight on you. It’s all about your attitude and how you carry yourself. If you like who you are, other people will like you too. They will be drawn to you.

You might say that you want to get married right away because you want to have children. We all have biological clocks that are ticking away. Let me ask you this, don’t those children deserve to be raised in a home with two parents who love one another and have a strong and healthy relationship that is going to last? I believe they do. A relationship started with deception and trickery is doomed from the start. Rushing into a marriage for the wrong reasons is not going to get you what you want. If you don’t find your guy in time, there is always adoption or other options for bringing children into your life.

Focus your energies on making sure you are the woman you need to be. Weed out the jerks, the guys who are users, and the bums. Don’t ever settle for less than you deserve. The right one will cross your path when you least expect it and that way, when you do get married, it will be a stable relationship that lasts.


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