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How To Get A Guy To Text You First
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How to Get A Guy to Text You First

Whatever the case, a cute guy you met at school, a guy you met and liked at a friend's party or even the guy at your day job, wherever the crush began, the most important thing is how you will talk to him after you both leave. Most girls prefer texting, but the issue that most girls have is how to get a guy to text you first. To deal with this, there are few things that a girl can do to make the guy make the first move. These include following several steps;

>>>> Drawing him in: Let's say it is a cute guy at school that you like, you can draw him in while you guys are in class. Casually ask him for a pencil or pen, or ask him to help you out with a math problem, this creates a basis from which he can begin to know you. If you don't have the nerve to go up to him, which most girls don't, you can try casually looking at him from across the room till his gaze meets yours, then simply smile and continue with what you were doing. This will make the guy wonder who you are and how comes you were smiling at him.

>>>> Talk about anything: After a few gazes and smiles the next thing you should try is talking to him however mediocre the conversation might be. A simple, 'hi' or 'what's up' will suffice. The reason for this is to further his intrigue, a simple but effective way of how to get a guy to text you first.

>>>> Flirting: Once you guys have become acquaintances through sharing long gazes, smiles and heart throbbing conversations it is will be okay to text some flirtatious texts with the guy. You should do this for just a short time. It draws the guy further in and makes sure that all his attention is on you.

>>>> Stop: After a week or two, stop trying to get his attention. Act friendly but don't come off as too eager. Stay away a bit from him, let him search for you, ask around where you are or who your with. If he does this, it shows that his really interested in you and sooner rather than later he will ask for your number if you haven't already given it to him.

>>>> Make him do all the work: Eventually after the looking and searching, he will realise that he misses you when you're not around bringing him closer to being the first to text. A girl at this time should her urge to call or text him; this is how to get a guy to text you first, showing patience.

>>>> Ask him to spend time with you: Once you start to get close, ask him to spend time with you. You guys can go out for ice cream or pizza during which you should try to relax and have fun, simply enjoy his company; this will make him more attracted to you. It will make him not want to leave your side and once you guys part he will definitely text or even call you to find out if you enjoyed yourself and if you in bed safe making him the first one to text.

When trying to figure out how to get a guy to text you first, you should try the above steps and see them do magic for you.

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