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Making Up After A Fight - We All Go Through It
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Making up after a fight is very common. It's no wonder relationships kind of stay together, however, only a few really know how to make up after a fight. Most go about it the wrong way and I'm going to show you a few ways to go about it the proper way.

"You ain't gosta lie Craig, you ain't gosta lie". Does this sound familair to you? Even Craig's so call girlfriend from the movie Friday was a total drag and not the best girlfriend in the world, but somehow, Craigs calm temper and sincere nature kept them together as long as possible. It was his girlfriend's disrespectful, quick tempered, and jeaslous behavior that ruined their relationship.

If it's one thing for sure that I know, I know that it takes two to make a relationship work. If only one person is willing to change and make sacrafice, then your relationship will never work. I put my 7 year relationship on it.

One thing I notice people do is have make up sex. Make up sex might be one of the best, but honestly, it doesn't solve the root to your relationship problem or argument. The key to making up after a fight is to find these 3 things:

  1. The root of your problem

- Finding the root of your problem will not only eliminate what's really hurting you on the inside, but it will help you want to find a solution to your hurt.

  • Ways of getting a positive attention

- It's natural to start screaming and calling out names when mad. It's not the best approach to follow when you want your partner to listen to what you have to say. You can start by being respecful and ask your partner if it's a good time to talk, if yes, proceed. If not, then wait untill the time is right to talk.

Notice how I said "talk", not scream or yell. Talking in a normal tone is the best way to get attention and get them to listen to you.

- Mention you much you appreciate them and your relationship, then proceed with how you feel. After that, give some solution you think will work, then ask them how they feel about how you feel and what they think will work to solve the problem.

It's easy to get caught up in the moment when you want your way. Everybody is selfish in their relationship, but a real person is never willing to settle for self. A real person in a real relationship want to settle for both. If you follow these two things as a strategy of making up after a fight, I promise you, the sex will be fantastic, deep, and worth so much more.


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john bond  

a good article,but making up after a fight is good but like you said it is a temporayr fix, sometime we have to accept what the other person is for what they are and what we are for what we are, there are always two sides to a coin.

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