Romances usually start be being exciting and very romantic, but as time moves on the romance starts to fade and if you are like most people you start asking yourself were the romance in your relationship went. If your intention is to keep your love life vibrant you will start coming up with romantic ideas for your boyfriend.

In a perfect world you boyfriend would always be the romantic one. But it is you who wants to be romantic toward him you will find out that he will often return the favor and start being romantic toward you. Either of you can plan on romantic moments at an instant, and you will be amazed that your spontaneous romantic moments bring you maximum effect.

Think outside of the box when thinking up romantic moments, use your natural creativity. You will come up with exciting, romantic ideas, if you keep your mind open to new ideas. Your boyfriend will love your creative and romantic gestures.

Your relationship will grow stronger and your love life will stay exciting and alive if you continue keeping things romantic. Your boyfriend will love you better and enjoy all the romance you are showering on him. In return, he will start being more romantic toward you and your relationship will blossom into a happy union.

When bringing romance into your relationship it has to be with love, passion and sincerity. If being romantic seems like a drudgery, then it will not have the intended effect, but being romantic with passion will work wonders. You do not really have to get fancy to be romantic, sometimes it is just the little romantic ideas that you show day to day that results in a romantic relationship.

Even if you think your boyfriend is romantic and you do not feel you should worry about being romantic yourself, well, think again. You should show him romance periodically, do not leave it entirely up to him. Your man will be happy that he is receiving your romantic gestures and the little surprises you give him and in return he is going to be much more romantic to you.

It takes both the man and woman together, to keep the romance alive in your relationship. If you are looking for some ideas to get your boyfriend to start being more romantic, these few steps may be of interest to you:

1. Obviously, you should let your boyfriend know that you would like to see more romance from him. Tell him you would like to know how he feels about you and would like to hear him actually say these thing to you from time to time. Just him expressing his love for you and expressing his feelings is romantic. Let him know you know he loves you, but you really enjoy hearing it from him.

2. Having your boyfriend express how he feels about you in the presence of others will show he is romantic and not afraid to express he loves you in public. strongly encourage him to do this.

3. Train your boyfriend to ask little questions, such as how your day went of if you enjoyed your dinner. These little questions show he is interested in you and how comfortable you are. Questions can be romantic and make you feel awesome, which is what you want, right?

4. Your boyfriend should be the best listener in your life. He should be there for any problem you are experiencing and offer possible solutions to help you get through rough times. This shows his concern for you and your feelings and if you need him, he will be there.

5. He should be respectful toward the things you like, as well as, dislike and be able to work around them most times. He should keep himself well groomed and behave himself, as this will keep the romance fresh.

6. Lots of hugs and kisses is obviously something your boyfriend should be doing to make you feel loved.

7. He should of course offer comforting words in your time of need. He most likely can not solve every problem you encounter, but he should be there to offer support when you require it.

A lot of men just are not romantic at heart and will need your constant encouragement in order for them to be romantic. If you continually do small things for him, he most likely will reciprocate and do little romantic things for you. Your relationship will be happy and vibrant if you both show consideration and romance toward each other.