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Tips On Igniting The Romance In Your Relationship
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Tips On Igniting The Romance In Your Relationship

Sure Fire Ways Of Igniting The Romance In A Relationship

Most people imagine that being in a romantic relationship sometimes sounds easier than they think. But can you maintain the fire of romance long enough? Certainly, this has to be the most difficult thing for many couples in a relationship. The level of romance depends on your commitment to the relationship and your level of creativity. You don't have to do big things to spark the fire of romance. There are small special things that you can do and still get desirable results. If you are looking for quick, outrageous, and creative tips on igniting the romance in your relationship, then check out the tips below.

Be Creative

If you have a busy work schedule, then you have to try out the following things to keep the romance in your relationship. These are not all that you can try, but a few useful suggestions to spark your creativity.

  • Walk for long distances while talking and holding hands.
  • Look at the eyes of your spouse, and listen when he or she is talking to you. It makes you more attractive and shows that you are attentive and care for her.
  • Rent and watch a romantic movie or comedy, and cry or laugh together.
  • Send random text messages like "I love u". It certainly makes a big difference.
  • Do your favorite activities together like going biking, jogging, and swimming.

Be Passionate

One of the good classic ways of maintaining romance in a relationship is writing and sending heartfelt love notes to your partner. It is unfortunate that most couples stop writing letters after high school. Perhaps you are lazy, or you have lost the youthful zeal, but don't quit yet.

Don't ignore the value of a passionate kiss, A kiss before you leave for work will pave the way for a smooth day and will tempt you to get home quickly. It doesn't have to be on a weekend. Kissing daily is desirable, especially if it is a surprise kiss.

Another thing, when you are travelling with your partner, make sure that you give him or her a fresh bouquet of roses, one for each day. Also, attach a note that indicates what the roses mean for you and your partner. Something like, "each rose is for the time you will be away and they represent the love, joy, and excitement of being with you'.

Spend Quality Time

One of the greatest way of bonding with your coupling is by spending quality time together. This is important to spark romance and rejuvenate your love life. So, what tips work best?

  • Go away as a couple and leave the kids behind for a night or weekend and do the fun things that you could never do at home. A getaway holiday is good so that you can have quiet time together.
  • Cook favourite meals, for ladies, it said that the best way into a man's heart is through the stomach. That may not always be the case, but you can make the eating experience enjoyable if you cook what your partner loves. By extension, it also shows that you care.
  • Sit and talk about issues. Just listening and paying attention to what your spouse says indicates that you really care about what they are feeling.

Surprise Your Spouse

Surprises work best for all couples. You don't have to do the same things over and over again.

  • Try something like breakfast in bed on a weekend or buying gifts without telling your spouse. Also, consider doing a foot or back massage when you feel your spouse needs it.
  • Take your spouse for a surprise lunch or dinner and give her or him a special treat. It is a chance to reaffirm your love. Surprise gifts, chocolates and candies also work well, just be sure to get what they really love.
  • Instead of sitting down and watching TV, consider switching of the lights and listen to the entertainment system for the night. Light candles, get cosy and have a conversation.

It might be easy to get into a relationship, but it certainly is difficult to keep the fire burning. You should try one or more ways of igniting the romance in your relationship. Most importantly, understand that relationships have ups and downs which need a spark of romance to keep you together. Simple things such as hugging, exchanging notes, holding hands while walking, and surprise treats work best. Your commitment and creativity is vital in keeping the romance lively for a lifetime.

Street Talk

Ken, this is a lovely article and there is so much truth in everything you say. Good enduring relationships are no accident. I think one of the most wonderful things a man can do is cook or prepare a meal for the family. Even if it's only firing up the BBQ or working together on throwing the pizza together. It's a bonding time and shows the lady (who often gets this job without much recognition) that you appreciate her efforts and want to help out too.

  about 1 decade ago
Joan S  

Ken, you are a true romantic! That is spot on the way to keep romance alive. Don't ever take each other for granted. I love your article.

  about 1 decade ago

Ken, Good job writing! Good ideas. blessings, Cynthia

  about 1 decade ago
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