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5 Reasons Why Adding An Ex Girlfriend On Facebook Will Help You Get Her Back
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Most of the time, when a girl breaks up with a guy, the almost always want to be friends. And they tell him so. If this is you, don’t reject the offer just because you are mad at her for breaking up with you. In fact, if you still want to be with her and get back with her, this is actually an advantage on your part. So, instead of you deleting her and cutting her off, just say ok and add her as a Facebook friend when she request you to be one on Facebook.

Reason why you will want to be friends with your ex girlfriend on Facebook

It’s pretty obvious you will want to be friends with your ex on Facebook, because that’s probably the one place you will get more than enough information on her ware abouts, who she’s talking to, where she been, and what she’s talking about. And doing these things will not seem like you’re a stalker, because she can’t physically see you reading her posts or checking her pictures out.

If you delete her, you finding out all of these things will be eliminated and you will be more tempted to do things that will physically show her that you still want her back or are stalking her.

5 reasons to be friends with ex girlfriend on Facebook if you want her back

· It will help you get over her if you really want to get over her

(No body is perfect. When you read some of the dumb stuff she talks about or look at some pictures that reminds you of her bad habits, you will slowly remember the things you hated about her)

· It shows that you’re over her, even if you’re not

(There is nothing worse than a female knowing that you still love her and she dumped you. Being friends with her in her eye will show her that you’re over it and are willing to simply be real friends. No hard feelings. Besides, if you’re not her friend, you will steadily think about what she’s doing, if she ever thinks about you, and if she talks to other guys, and having all of these things in your mind will ultimately drive you nuts)

· It makes spying on her easier

(Like I said before, spying on her is so much easier on Facebook when you’re her friend. Doing so in real life will scare her and will cause her to hate you or call the police on you)

· I shows that you are a good guy and not childish

(Whenever a girl dumps a guy, there is nothing worse than calling out her name and going ham on her because you got dumped. This will cause her to never talk to you again and lose interest in you 100%. When you agree to be her friend, it shows how mature you are and not a little boy who is mad because he got dumped)

· To make her jealous

(Believe it or not, when you got dumped, that doesn’t mean she won’t get jealous if she saw you with another female. The reason why she will get jealous is because ya’ll breakup is still fresh and still thinks about you every now and then. The best way to make her jealous is for you to have normal, fun, and interesting conversations in your post with other girls. Doing so will remind her how fun and interesting you really are. Also, go and take pictures with good looking girls, not whores, but nice looking and sophisticated girls. This will crush her heart and make her realize what a good thing she lost)

Final thoughts on this subject

When a girl dumps you and still wants to be friends, be her friend. If you don’t, this will give you less opportunity to get back with her. Put yourself out there as the good guy, but play it cool. Your reaction plays a huge part in getting back with her, so make sure you do it right and don’t get caught up in your emotions by getting angry and making a scene.

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i told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. but all of a sudden he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. i did cry but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignaty as i could. but i never understand why he dont want to stay with me. but before he left he told me i am irressistable, lovely warm person etc but he just want to walk away from my life. the pain was awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st june. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. he deleted my numbers but i never let go of him. i wanted him back but he has made up his mind so i had no choice but to look for a way to get him back so what i did was to look for a spell caster to help me get back my lover fast as possible, when i came across prophetharry@ymail. com, so he did a love spell for me and the spell came out perfect, my lover reconciled with me and we came back together and since then we have been in peace and the lover is flowing perfectly julie

  about 9 years ago

Yeah...don't take pictures with crack me up are right about playin the jealousy angle...don't over do it and don't get caught doin it..she's gonna want what she can't have.

  about 1 decade ago

I'm funny J? thanks...lmaoooo. All girls want what they can't have. Smh, we work in a very strange way, lol

  about 1 decade ago

I agree that being mature is very important in any relationship. And it is true that you will always be tempted to check on your ex especially if you just had a break-up. So doing it in facebook proves to be more discreet rather than trying to do it in the real world.

  about 1 decade ago

facebooks makes it so easy now days it's ridiculous. wish they had fb a long time ago when I was

  about 1 decade ago
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