So she is gone and you are standing there with a broken heart. Right now you do not know what to do or what to think about what happened. You are probably wondering why is this happening to you and asking yourself "how do I get my lesbian lover back". You miss her so much that you probably want to run to her and tell her, beg her to please come back together. But no, you know that will not work just as easy, you know you need to calm down, relax and rethink your possibilities on getting her back. In this article you will read about my experience when my girlfriend broke up with me and how I got her back in a couple of weeks.
Now, it does not matter if it has been one or three weeks, or one or three months since you girls broke up your relationship and dispite of the reason there is always a great chance of getting your lesbian ex back for good. First of all, please do not get into your head that just because it is a lesbian relationship is different or harder to get back together as any other couple. It is the same, two people going through difficult times each of them on their own space. If you are feeling sad and miserable, then chances are she is feeling the same way and wants you back (but is not sure or does not know it yet) you need to help her realize this and here is how:
The first thing you need to do is to STOP texting her, calling her and sending her emails or roses to her job. Do not look for her. Stop every means of communication with her. Bottom line is, let her miss you. Give her space to actually think about you, cry for you, feel for you again or what ever she needs time for.
Secondly, do not sit on your butt during this time. Sometimes we drag ourselves into darkness and want to never come out of our cave when we are going through a break up. If you want to get your lesbian lover back then get active and let this experience be as a motivator to get better as a person. If you have some pounds over, then get to the gym and workout. If you always wanted to join a dance class or any other activity, then do so. The thing is that you need to join activities and be INDEPENDENT and project that to the people around you.
Lesbian women like their partner to be free, independent and self motivated. Be spontaneous, believe me, I had a hard time understanding this because I thought my partner wanted me to be with her all of the time so I blocked myself from joining groups that interested me and doing things alone. However, when we went through a break up and came back together I kept doing my own stuff such as going to the gym, my partner likes to see that I do for myself and not for her. So try it, surely it will work for you too.
So now, you are doing stuff by yourself and building your self confidence, now how do you get your ex lesbian lover back? You have done the two basic but most crucial steps on getting your lesbian lover back. Now you need to pay attention to what is next closely if you really want her back. Keep reading about my experience during my break up and learn the answer of how do I get my lesbian lover back in my blog and find out what I personally did to get her back.
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