I dare to say that we all have been through this more than once, but there are certain people that we get to love dearly even more than others in our pasts. Today I am happy to say that I am still with the girl of my dreams, that we hold a beautiful relationship (even though we run into arguments from time to time) and that we are overall happy together. We were made for each other.

But it wasn't a field of roses all the way, we broke up many times before but one of them really marked our story. Anyway, in this article I want to write to you about how I managed to make her fall in love with me all over again despite all the negativeness around us and the circumstances that made her break up with me. I don't want to sound easy or utterly difficult, but there was a degree of difficulty to make her have those kind of loving feelings towards me again. She was hurt and I was a disaster.

Let me tell you first why I was a disaster. Well, like any person that screwed up in a relationship I felt the urge to apologize many times, I felt the urge to call her and text her like crazy (later I found out this is called text-terrorism... I was a text terrorist... Funny huh!) and the worse thing I would try to be present in every minute of her day making her feel followed and unsafe with me. She even said it in these words: "Stop, you are nothing like the person I fell for in the first place".

That is when it hit me, girl. I was doing everything wrong. Those words hurt me like you can't imagine but at the same time I realized that if I wanted her back with me I would have to do something different.

First, I stopped texting her or calling her. Not to mention the unexpected and unwanted visits from me at her place. I am not sure exactly why I took this step. Maybe because she really really hurt me when she said that but it came "natural" for me to stop all means of communication with her.

I was hurt, I did not know what to do and I felt everything was lost but then I decided to look for help so I started to google about how to get your ex back and stuff until I found that stopping all communication with my girl was the best thing I had done so far. So I felt relieved to know I was in the right path to getting her back. I also found about the term "text-terrorist" which came very surprising because I didn't even know there was a name for that.

So, if you have been calling her, texting her and begging her to take you back you have to stop right now, girl. You are digging yourself deeper and pushing her further away from you. If you really want to know how to make your lesbian girlfriend fall in love with you all over again, then I suggest you look for the right steps to getting her back as I did. They helped me so much and we are still together after everything we've been through. And, not only that, we are a stronger couple than before; we've come a long way together and our love is unbreakable. We are so in love.