Everyday i hear its doesn't feel like its the holiday season. It doesn't matter where i am at in public i hear those type of words. People tend to get tide into other things of the world than to enjoy this time with their family and friends. This is the time of year that you show your appreciation to others by giving. Though some may not have the funds to give the best of gifts, but as long as the gift is from the heart its priceless.

I really think the Christmas spirit deflation is from all of the bad things happening over the world. Although the people you hang around this time of the year can have a huge affect on your emotions too. For example, i was in the mall with my mom and i can tell you i really enjoyed myself. It was about eleven o"clock at night and it was just her and I and a few others in a Belk store. My mom was telling the few people that was there Merry Christmas and everybody there suddenly was joyous and begin to just converse on different topics. Topics such as God, Christmas gifts, careers, and many others. I was filled with so much excitement and joy and couldn't stop smiling.

The main person to blame if your not in the Christmas spirit is yourself. If you are not excited or happy doing the holidays you have to help drive your mind into a happy stage. We have so much to be thankful for and words can't even express how blessed we really are. If your not as joyous as you usual are at this time of year i recommend listening to so good motivating Christmas songs. Music tends to have a deep effect on our emotions and can change the way we feel rather quick. Many people let others ruin their day and that shouldn't be.

If the people you hang around are not bringing you up or helping you to become a better person its time to leave them alone for the holidays. Negativity decreases our emotions drastically and has a bigger impact on us than we think. We must remember that the holiday season is one of the best seasons ever and we should be feeling our best during this time. This is a great time of the year to gather up with friends and family and have a great social event and enjoy each other company.

Laughter is good for soul. Christmas is not just any holiday and is special. So lets get in the holiday spirit and go out and buy others things they will love. Always remember its better to give than to receive. Have a Merry Christmas and happy holidays everyone!