Make A Decision
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Make A Decision

The moment you have made your decision, the universe immediately shifts and conspires to make it happen for you. That is good news right, no waiting in line, no waiting period it happens instantly and things start to go your way. But you have to make a decision, a definite final decision.

You have to make a decision, a conscious deliberate choice. We easily think we get away with not making decisions and that is why our lives run amok. We have to make choices and stick to them. Even small ones, there are many choices to be made which we just conveniently try to skip over. It does not work that way. You are the creator of your life, therefore you have to make all the choices, big and small. Sometimes we decide not to decide, usually with the small ones, then we get clogged and clouded therefore we cannot move forward because it all is just too heavy. Decide to make your decision then make it.

To decide and to act is a major obstacle for most of us. Yes, we all have stuff that happened to us, that created the person we are today. You have to work through these, make a decision then take action. Decide to be better, decide to be strong and capable. Decide to succeed no matter what. You know what you want, and you know what you need to do to get it. Why are you letting these small unmade choices hold you back. You are destined for greatness. You deserve every bit of everything you want.

For some reason you are not getting to the point where you can start to move forward. You are holding yourself back. You know you want it, you know how much you want it. But for some reason you decide not to decide and you stay stuck where you are.

To reinvent your life, you have to make conscious deliberate decisions and take action. Taking action is always a major part in making a lasting life changing decision. Once you decide it, you do it. But don’t decide not to decide because you don’t want to do it, get of your lazy ass and start doing something, get moving and get going.

When you have made the decision, then you put yourself and everything you’ve got into it. That everything you have that I am talking about, is a lot more than what you think. We underestimate ourselves a lot, so put in everything and then put in some more again. It’s sure not easy, it’s not meant to be easy. It takes hard work and dedication. You have to keep at it all the time, every minute of every day. It is very challenging to have to concentrate and focus on that all the time. Its hard and you have to inspire yourself to keep going. Even at times when you don’t feel like it, when you feel tired and worn out, you have to keep going. These are the times you have to be especially strong and adamant. Be relentless with yourself, do not let yourself go back on your decision. Never ever let yourself give up, never. If you want to make a difference, just decide and get started.

A lot of times it is easier just to let others make the decision for you, but that is not how it works. You have to decide and you have to choose. You only have this one life, make the decision to make this life the best life by just being awesome. Make the choice right now. How to make a decision and stick to it; well your mind is the most powerful thing in the world. The human spirit, your power within you is unbreakable and unstoppable. If you want to make a difference, you make a decision. And make a decision to start. Start doing it, start to change your life or whatever situation you want to change. But remember one thing, all change all good things you want, it all starts with you.

Your fear is holding you back, your fear of failure. You have failed before, you are probably failing now, and you probably will fail again, more than once. But that is no reason to be afraid to do it again and again until you succeed. If babies were too afraid to fall, none of us would probably have even walked. Failure is good, it makes you strong and teaches you what not to do and it teaches you what you do not want. Every time you fail, make sure you fall on your back in order for you to see the sky, as long as you can see the sky you can get up and do it again, this time make better choices and work harder.

You may fear losing somebody, or maybe you are afraid of what they might think….. I have that a lot. We don’t want to hurt anybody. Most times we don’t act because we want others approval. We want people to like us, we want to be accepted. They don’t believe in us, so we believe them therefore we don’t even try. You and what you want is all that matters. When you decide to act in your own interest, you are bound to lose people around you. You need to gather up all your confidence, as much as you can master, believe in yourself no matter who tells you what. Some people will not like you to change, but you are doing this for you and not for them.

You are in complete control, your life right now is a reflection of your decisions or lack thereof. Right now, say YES, I will do it. You control life, life should not control you. You have the special power in you. If your life is miserable right now, if you want something different right now, make a decision right now and act on it.

You know what I did to get to this awesome point in my life where I am right now, I made a decision. I decided what my problem areas were, I examined the possibilities and my options, I compared them and I chose a course of action. Sounds complicated but it’s really easy. A wise person makes his decisions and takes action. You are a wise person and you know it.

Your success is once decision away.

Every single day, every moment holds the possibility of a miracle.


Street Talk

  

yes, exactly Cynthia. I am glad the point came across clear.

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  about 3 years ago

Bravo! Great article. Perfect title too. Indeed, that's what we all need to do: make a decision. Take action to follow through.

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  about 3 years ago
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