Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? Well I have and to be quite frank it is not as easy as I thought it would be...no no no....it actually can turn out to be extremely difficult and stressful...but my man and I seem to make it happen. The hardest part of it all is to not be able to wrap my arms around him on a regularly daily basis. But I almost feel like us being so far apart actually brought us closer. I want to let you all in on a little secret about long distance love...

Love does not know Distance...I am sure a lot of you have heard this expression before and this expression istrue. When in a long distance relationship that has already flourished beautiful love...chances are this relationship can last a very long time and chances are you and your beau will end up in the same place in no time...you are probably thinking "to make a long distance relationship work it takes a lot of work" WRONG!!! To classify being in a relationship (either it be long distance or not) "WORK" is not the right term to use...love is not work.

Love is something you feel inside you, right to the core of your body, your heart and your soul...For example the other night my man said to me (and this was over the phone) "I am moving your hair aside and kissing the back of your neck" Instantly I felt his warmth on the back of my neck and my whole body had tingle's all over. This is how I know love does not know distance...In my experience my love for my man is just flourishingevery day.

This is because we take the time to talk to each other and do things together. Such as, after a long day at work, he will call me and we will snuggle up in our own beds with the TV on and we will physically watch the same show at the same time...together...or we will listen to music together for hours and this is my favourite because through music, and lady's this is a big one...you can express yourself in a seductive and sexy way...just to drive your man crazy. Don’t be shy, tell him what you're wearing and tell him that your dancing, trust me he'll like this. Another one I like is whispering. Whispering things in the phone is like whispering in each other’s ear...men like that...and it keeps the spark and fire burning!!

So in all... I want you all to sit back and think for a moment...weither your in a long distance relationship or living with the one you love...close your eyes and think of that one person...and tell me you dont feel them..i dare you...If you truly love this person, you will and i mean you WILL feel them right to the core of your body, heart and soul!! Love does not know Distance...it just know how to make you feel good!!!Near or far!! :) Hope you enjoyed!!