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Suddenly, we are now living in the era where relationships are treated as though changing the styles of one's hair. They come easy. They go easy. The value of commitment is being disregarded by many and has ended up many relationships just like that. But what would happen if you found the one that is the epitome of what love is? The love that will become the basis of how a relationship should be! The kind of relationship that's being envied by many out there. But very few found the one true love that really lasts. So, how does one keep such kind of relationship while others give up so easily?
You have to work hard for it. Love is a tandem. It is a collaboration of two hearts as one. For a relationship to last, working to make it happen is not optional, you must commit to it. And there are ways for you to keep it that way:
1. Communicating effectively is the threshold to many other ways to a lasting love. It is not simply just talking but more so understanding each other. You have to make sure you are together in the simplest decision about the relationship you are building.
2. Connecting physically goes outside the confines of your bedroom. But when you make love, you give a part of your soul to the one you love and vice versa. One does not take something from the other but add "value" instead. The "touch" always invites to bond, therefore, it makes love stronger even more. Cuddling, holding hands, hugging each other frequently add to being happy together as always.
3. Grow together finding your common ground. Your conviction on certain aspects of life or morality is one. Standing for a cause, politics or economics could be a common ground. Whatever it maybe, once you have identified it, cultivate it for a stronger bonding experience.
4. Sharing of interests differ a little from common ground. Let say you both adore being out in the waters, and so, if you love to sail finding a good deal on a sailboat is perfect but in turn will satisfy her interest of being in the open seas just enjoying the water and the sun. One interest compliments the other on a big scale, loving more each other with the wonders of nature.
5. Being a companion and spending time together are critical. Time is very important and you know why. Even if one is troubled, still, find that time to be together. If both are vying for a stronger relationship, always a lot a special time for each other.
A time apart from the other. This is also vital for one's growth and uniqueness. While it is important spending time as a couple, it is also good to let your partner spend time outside your company. You need friends. You need time with yourself and friends, sometimes for counsel. Friends give extra boost to your individuality. Both of you need a time alone from such intense relationship.
These paths may seem nothing but will make a huge impact to a stronger and resilient love relationship. Keep them at heart all the time!
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