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When your love walks out on you, it can be devastating. You may want them back and may be wondering “how do I get my ex back?” To be honest, the majority of people don't have any idea what to do to get an ex back. They often realise themselves doing things that won't work, things that will only make the distance between their ex and themselves very far apart. You need to get your ex back without making the mistakes you made before that ended up failing.

Don't try seeing your ex by going to places you know they go. Nor should you pretent to accidently bump into them where you know they hang out. This is a waste of time and has to change now.

If your relationship break up has been really rough on you both, you have to give yourselves tome to get over this difficult period. This time is needed before you even try to look at making up with them and getting them back.

Distract yourself from thinking about the actual break up. You will need to find other things to occupy yourself with. Although this may seem like you are actually ignoring on the break up, you will certainly not be able to make any sensible or well thought out decisions if you are still emotionally upset from what has been said or done by you or your ex in the heat of the moment.

How about trying something new like enrolling in a class, taking a short holiday or, better still, getting active and fit. Get into something that will take your mind off your ex, is far better that stewing on issues at home and constantly thinking about your ex. This is counter productive and may cause you to make irrational decisions and lose your ex for good.

When taking the time out and being away from your ex, it is essential that you think about what went wrong and what part you played in the relationship break down. This time is not meant to find blame in yourself, but it is to work out what you need to do to get my your back. If you are trully sure that you want to get back with your ex, then you have to come up with reasons for your ex to take you back. And that entails coming up with a plan to make adjusts to the behaviour that may have contributed to the break up.

It really is as simple as that. Start with getting your thoughts sorted out, work out what your part in the break up was and then contact your ex.


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