Do You Date Up Or Down?
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Do You Date Up Or Down?

Do you date below yourself? Many couples date, and then end up their relationship in the short time. Do you know why? Many combinations of signs and planetary affections coincide with reasons why you are intended to go out with partners who are below you in some levels such as income, intelligence, and so forth or why you are attracted at them who are up you in almost every respect.

Dating Down

For who those are not confident in themselves, they said that they don’t deserve to date someone who is a brilliant, successful, high-earner, or good partner. That is why they stay at home much with the type of lover who needs them. Then, they feel validated. You sometimes feel sad because of your partner who doesn’t understand your feelings as well as do something to make you unhappy during the time of both you staying together.

It is exactly dating down which often creates barriers between you and him/her. You won’t feel respectful at him/her. That is the main point to disappoint you. Yes, you can date down, but it takes no longer.

Dating Up

All of us always want to date up ourselves, even there are some self-esteem issues because we hope our wonderful lover help us turn from the ugly frog or duckling into the prince or princess we want to be. In this case, Saturn/Jupiter contacts will highlight the scenario in which we want to enhance our life, but still suffer from a foreboding that our lover can figure out we are faking it. For Pluto, when it comes to messing with different relationships, it displays a block we cannot transcend.

In love relationship, we can attract someone who isn’t going anywhere no matter how many shamans, therapists, or light workers we take them too. He/she becomes to resent you affecting his/her business. By contrast, you resent him/her that she/he doesn’t make an effort to improve the relationship. You can also attract any partner with power complexes, who realizes that making you into their ideal image is their responsibility because they assume that they are practically perfect. Maybe, you try to put your feet in, but your heart cannot be in it.

The relationship needs action, but sometimes it may be heavily weighted in your or your partner’s direction that there is no hope for getting it right. Once you find yourself dating above or below yourself on a normal basis and just feel like a failure in some respect, you should call for the help to get to the root cause. Awareness is the main key to seeing what or why you are doing it. That makes you easier to change, improve, nurture, and enjoy the partnership of your dreams.


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