You've just found out that the woman you love, the one you've been married to all these years, the same one who promised to forsake all others for you has been cheating on you. It has shattered your world. And now, you aren't even sure which end is up in your marriage or your life. You suddenly doubt everything your wife has ever said to you. More than anything you doubt the love she claimed to have for you. You want to know: "Does my wife's cheating mean she doesn't love me anymore?" You're also wondering if she ever loved you or if it was all some sort of game to her.

It isn't easy to get news that your wife has been unfaithful. In addition to being a blow to your heart it's also a huge blow to your pride. Some might say it's hitting a little below the belt. But, it doesn't have to be the end for your marriage. And, it absolutely does not mean that your wife doesn't love you. Just as men cheat for different reasons, so do women. In fact, cheating among women was once mostly unheard of. In today's society, with more women seeing themselves as the equals of men, it's more common than ever before.

While I know that doesn't make it any easier for you, it should clue you in on something that's really important. Women are becoming more and more likely to cheat as matters of convenience than ever before. In other words, it might not have anything to do with her love for another man or her lack of love for you. But, women are still more likely to have some feelings for the man they cheat with. Women still haven't crossed the barrier, for the most part, where sex without emotion is palatable. But that doesn't mean that it's too late for you to save your marriage after your wife has cheated on you at all.

The problem is you have to decide if you want to make your marriage work now that the truth is out or if you're ready to walk away. Then you have to test the waters to see if your wife still has some love left in her heart for you. It's not always easy to see and you can't always take no for an answer. Dig down deep to the heart of the problems that existed in your marriage and decide if you're ready to fight the good fight to make things right with your wife.

When you're ready to save your marriage or do whatever it takes to get your ex back you'll need to come up with a solid strategy for success. It's always a good idea to get a little help for the hard stuff once you've made up your mind to win her back.