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How Can I Get Him To Love Me Again?
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Breaking up seldom is easy, you know that, and I know that. A multitude of feelings are involved, anger,sadness, mistrust and confusion. These feelings and many more creep into our life. Thinking straight is just about impossible after a breakup, and in a short time you will find yourself starting to miss your ex. While your feelings maybe hurt, feelings for your ex partner may still linger on, you may even find yourself asking "how can I get him to love me again?". This is quite normal when you have been in a relationship for awhile, the feelings are still there. Now it is possible to get things worked out, but, be aware that it will take work and time to get him back.

At the beginning you need to focus on yourself, this is a priority. All the emotional baggage that you have built up since your breakup, needs to be cleared away from your mind. Now, one way to accomplish this is to stop all contact with him! No contact means no contact, no texting, do not phone and chat, stop emailing him, stop all communication. You need to get back into a normal state of mind, that is why you take this unusual step, it also prevents you from pushing him away from you.

Breaking off contact with your ex has another benefit, it gives you time to focus on yourself. I am sure we both agree, breakups take a toll on us, mentally, emotionally, and even physically. You need time to get into normal state of mind. You must focus on getting your life in order and taking care of"you". Pamper yourself.

Negative emotions are often hard to let go of, if you are the type that has a hard time letting these emotions go, you should go see a counselor to guide you through the releasing of them. Get plenty of sleep, exercise and eat properly. Missing your boyfriend is normal, but you need to get your life adjusted if you wish to get him back. Think about it, would you be attracted to someone who is well adjusted, or an emotional wreak?

After awhile of no contact with your ex, and he has had the space to think about what happened when you broke up, you can get in touch with him. You still want the answer to "how can I get him to love me again?", right? Get a meeting set up with him so you can talk one on one. Chose a neutral public place that you both will be comfortable at. This is not a date, you both now have level heads to discuss the breakup and how to fix the relationship you both shared. Show respect to each other, and do not get into an argument. Stay positive and happy, this is the only way to find out if he will love you again.


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