If you're like most guys who are going through an unexpected and unwanted breakup you probably have asked yourself one question over and over again: "How can she just stop loving me like that?" It's the one question that haunts you and one you'd really like answers for. You'd love to be able to just get over her that way. Unfortunately, you're not convinced that she has gotten over you all the way. At least you aren't if you're being completely honest with yourself. That's what hurts the most in some way though, isn't it?
You understand that emotions aren't water faucets. You can't stop the flow simply by turning a knob just as you can't go hot and cold at the blink of an eye. While it might seem like your entire relationship has been in and out of hot and cold water for the past several months, the truth is that you've had many more good times together than bad. You're convinced that you just need to get her to hear you out and then you can convince her to give your relationship a second chance. That's all you want right now really – a second chance to win her heart and make her be as in love with you as you are with her.
Second chances happen all the time. There is hope for you and your girlfriend to work things out. It might not seem like it at the moment though. Sometimes the one thing you need to do in order to work things out is the last thing you'd expect to do at a time like this. But there's one thing you need to do before you do anything else. You need to take a step back and really decide just how badly you want to get your ex back. Are you really willing to go the distance to save your relationship?
If so, these are a few things that might help you win her heart all over again.
- Remind her of all the reasons she fell in love with you in the first place. Woo her with words and deeds that are sure to bring a smile to her lips and love for you to her heart.
- Take the extra time in your day to show her a little extra love and appreciation each and every day. This will save your relationships where so many other tactics would fail miserably. She needs to be needed. Show her that she is.
- Be generous with words of praise and miserly with words of rebuke. Positive attitudes and words get positive results. Try it. You'll see!
It's not necessary to move mountains to save your relationship. But, the first hurtle you must overcome to make your relationship work is to get her to take your calls.
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