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How Do I Make Myself Stop Loving Her?
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It doesn't matter if you've been together days, weeks, months, years, or decades. When the relationship is over and she's decided to walk away, it can leave you feeling more than a little lost and alone. You don't know where to go or how you should feel. You see, guys don't talk about these things. That makes it even more difficult to deal with because you're not even sure if what you're going through is remotely normal. Sure you've seen exaggerated cases of breakup blues in movies and the worst case scenario depictions are not attractive to you at all. But what you want to know, more than anything is: "How do I make myself stop loving her?" That's ALL you want right now because then you believe the pain will go away.

There's only one problem with that logic. You can't force yourself to stop loving someone any more than you can force yourself to fall into someone you feel nothing for. Sure, arranged marriages work due to time and companionship but rarely do they result in two people falling madly in love with one another. Once you do, it's not something you can stop on a dime. It's going to take a little bit of time to get your emotions under control and prepare your heart and mind to move along.

But, there is one other option you might want to consider. It will help you solve the big problem that's weighing heavily on you at the moment – the fact that your heart is broken and you're in a lot of pain. But it will not involve you doing something that is about as difficult as roping the stars. Of course, once you hear the plan you might believe it's more far fetched. What is it? You can get your ex back.

There.

I said it.

It's been on your mind since the moment she dumped you. It's what you've wanted to do all along. You've just convinced yourself it can't be done. You've told yourself it's impossible. But it is very much possible. You just need to have a solid plan in place to make it happen.

Now it won't be the easiest thing you've ever done. But it will be a fair sight easier than trying to convince your heart that it isn't carrying a strong torch for her. The beauty of getting her back is that you can stop your pain and end her pain too. She's hurting too or she wouldn't have decided to end things like that. When you save your relationship and get her back you'll have plenty of time to work on a way to keep your relationship on the straight and narrow in the future.


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