I may guess how it feels when your boyfriend ditches you whom you loved and trusted more than anything but I haven’t, obviously, experienced it. In many cases, girls usually try to commit suicide instead of rebuilding their hope and trying to solve the situation. I must say that the girls who even think of committing suicide for such minor reasons can never move on in their life. Several such problems occurs in a person’s life so does this mean that everyone should start dying? This isn’t a wise decision. In fact, your ex would find someone else instead of regretting and crying for you all his life.

Just assure yourself that you have to live and fight for your love. Not just let him go with someone else. In the beginning, you must have full control over your emotions. Just do not offend him but ask for apology if it was your fault. Boys usually are impressed of girls who mind their language and behavior. Moreover, do not try to contact him in any way but let him miss you and let him call you. Let him feel your absence.

Take every step in such a way that your boyfriend must not realize what you are up to. Do not directly visit him; do not go to those places where you both used to go very frequently or any other place where there is a chance of his presence. You have to try your best to make him realize that you no longer care about him and this might disturb him. When he gets disturbed, there is a chance that he might try to contact you in any way. Remember, do not make him feel that you desperately want him back and take a few minutes before saying something.

It is very obvious that a person develops negative thoughts in his mind when he is separated from his loved one. It might not be easy but you have to free your mind from every such thought and lead a happy life. Do not let a bad day make you feel that you have a bad life. Listen to some good music and try to relax for an hour or two, thinking about all good things. Do not let these minor problems overcome you. Consider this break up as a road bump that you will someday cross over swiftly. Expect something better and do not think of something bad. Remember, you get what you think. Think about a new start.

It would be better to think about how to get your ex back rather than crying for him. Think about some ways and believe that you can get him back easily. Positive thinking, positive results! From all of the tips, thinking is the only natural way which is most effective if positive. Just affirm yourself that he loves you and not that you are not good enough for him. All you need to have is a cool state of mind, patience and a good thinking.