When there is a breakup after a long term relationship, no matter whose fault it was, both the partners feel like patching up again but could not as they are afraid of doing so. Girls may express their sorrow as it is the women’s nature. However, men usually do not like to express it openly but they are drowned in deep grief inside. Girls might share this with their friends but can’t move on.

All your friends might give you several tips to patch up with your ex but remember one thing, listen to everyone then do whatever you feel like. You know better than anyone what the situation is and what the main reason was for this break up. Try to figure out yourself what should be done and what to avoid. Like a friend, I will also tell you some tips of patching up. Remember, do whatever you think is correct and avoid that is not appropriate.

First of all, think of the day when you both first saw each other and met. Observe those qualities which you once possessed but they’ve changed now. Recall those habits which were admired by your boyfriend. Gather all those changes and try to be a person you used to be when you both first met. Be as caring as you can and try to make his priorities yours. By saying this I mean that you have to compromise because ego on both the sides usually destroys even strong relationships. In order to restart this relationship, you have to tolerate the habits of your boyfriend which you do not like and get annoyed from. These habits might be the reason you had broken up with him. Tolerance would be vey much helpful to you. He may test you whether you have changed or not and whether you are ready to compromise or not. However, if you have the determination to patch up with him again, he surely will ask you out again.

Secondly, if you do this cleverly, your boyfriend might ask you to meet him. Take that meeting (or date) as an advantage. This means that try to convince your boyfriend how important both of you are to each other. Make him recall the times which you both spent together in joy or hardships. That will be the only time when he might listen to you and give a thought to the matter. Memories are the most powerful weapon to soften a person’s heart. He might realize how important you are for him and decide to patch up again.

Just remember that do not try any clever way of getting him back which might have an adverse affect on your relationship. Try to start a new chapter with honesty and truth. However, you have to get over your pride and compromise if you really love him. These tips might be helpful in building the base of this relationship but you have to be careful in every step you take to make it longer and stronger.