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Ideas For Your New Relationship On Valentine's Day
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Ideas for Your New Relationship on Valentine\'s Day

Are you confused on what to get your love for Valentine's Day? Or thinking what to do if you have only been in this relationship for couple of weeks? It’s like a day before Christmas, there’s lot of pressure and expectations.

If your relationship is in a baby stage, don’t expect to get swept of your feet.“You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip.” Jonathan Carroll

One of the hardest things in any romantic relationship, especially at the beginning, is to avoid expectations, rule here would be to have no expectations that Valentine Day will be anything special for the two of you. The high expectations or wrong gift can also wreck a new relationship on valentine day itself. The holiday pressure for this day is all time high than any other holiday, it is tricky even for the most love-struck couple when a gift misses the mark.

Even if it’s brand new relationships don’t forget the day and tell your love that “I was just thinking about you”. At this stage it’s good to give a card with some chocolates or a red rose. If your relationship has crossed few months, do something special, without going over the budget,. It’s time to go for a movie or play with a nice dinner, nice flower bouquet with chocolates or a trip to nice spa, but not jewelry if relationship is not serious.

If you want your Valentine’s Day memorable here are 3 steps for you:

1) Discuss together about holiday: If you have something in your mind its good to discuss because if took a chance someone can get hurt or feeling uncomfortable. Keep the conversation light, ask the other person what they think of new relationship on Valentine day, like choosing for a movie or venue for romantic dinner. Respect your partner’s decision.

2) Plan for the day: If both decided to go ahead and enjoy the holiday together as a tradition usually couples exchanges some form of gifts. Before spending if possible set the rules, about how much to spend & what type of gift can you get for each other. If not decided, chances are there one is spending couple of hundred dollars and other is spending on $30 gift card. If holiday is on your term it will make you feel more at ease.

3) Activities for the day: Plan together the activities that you both are comfortable doing. Schedule a time and place that suits both of you. For newbie’s you can opt to movies or Broadway play instead of having traditional dinner. It is advisable to focus on forming a bond of trust and friendship rather going for deep intimacy at this stage.


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