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Breakups in relationships are painful but they do occur. They are not even rare events. Whether you have suffered a breakup in the past or not, it ios wise to know how to handle a breakup and how to get him back. I wish you do not have to use these tips in your life. But you can definitely help your friend who may be suffering from a relationship problem.

There are several possible ways to get your boyfriend back and there are also several possible scenarios. Let us look at a few scenarios.

1) Your boyfriend calls you: Great! Don't ponder over why he is calling and delay picking up the phone. Before you decide to pick up the phone, he may change his mind and end the call. Or, he may perceive your failure to pick up the call immediately as a sign of your indifference towards getting back with him and hang off. So, pick up the call immediately. But be cautious and avoid overanxious behavior. the best way to do this is to stay calm. You can easily act calm in any case. Listen to what he has to say before reacting. He may be on a fishing expedition trying to find out what in in your mind. . ct normal, neither upset nor desperate. If he says sorry, accept it gracefully. You can also say sorry after this to make him feel good, though you might have not done anything wrong.

2) He tries to find out whether you miss him: Nothing will satisfy the ego of a man more than the feeling that a woman misses him. However, men do not like to stick with such women. So, do not give him this impression. It is okay if he believes that you are not upset about missing him. Men will like women who can take care of themselves and manage situations. Act confident as if nothing has gone out of your hand.

3) Your man makes a personal call: Receive him with warmth but do not be overly passionate. Just be courteous and polite. Let him feel that he has wronged you and that you have been hurt though you have the grace not to pick up a fight with him. If he calls on you after fixing up a time, do not put on excessive make up or do anything to make you physically attractive. If you do this, he will feel that you are trying to win him over through your looks and charm. This will show you being desperate too.

4) He asks for a date: Now, you are at the last step of getting your boyfriend back. Do not readily accept it. Set your own terms for the time and place. But when you go there to meet him, look your best. He will know that you have accepted him and will get over any feeling of resentment over your dilly dallying.


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