If you are looking for answers on what is real true love, then it's great to understand couples who have found it. I started my own search for my real true love in 2007 when I had a boyfriend who wasn't that interested in me and I was looking for ways to get him to love me. That started me on a journey of learning everything I could about men, relationships, soulmates and if real true love existed.

I want to share my own conclusions I came to of my experiences that lead to attracting my own real true love, so that others can benefit from my experience and know that it is possible for everyone. There are so many soulmate couples and true love couples now who are attracting each other and living in blissful lasting relationships. It's just a matter of finding out what you really want and what is stopping you from getting it.

So to help others find their own true love, I thought that it's best to start with the end in mind of what it's like for others to be in a true love relationship. That is where I came to write my first ebook called True Love: 8 Signs That It's Real. The 8 signs consist of the main aspects that I believe are what make up being in this amazing relationship where you are both committed to making it last.

If you aren't aware of your own inner power to create anything you want, then you might be thinking that true love doesn't exist or that it's all just a fairytale. I know there are people like this because I used to be one of them. Until I discovered the law of attraction and learned that everything I had in my life and circumstances I had been through, had been attracted by me and mostly done unconsciously.

Through research of self development, how we create our habits and why we attract certain things to us and repel others became something I really wanted to understand and learn how to be in charge of what I was creating in my life. When you think what is real true love? Then you have to understand yourself more about how you attract certain relationships and why.

When I looked back on my past relationships, I noticed a pattern where they all had something in common. I also noticed I was attracting men similar to my own father. So this is where writing down what you want in a partner and sticking to it without settling became important to me. I also looked at how I was treated as a child and how I had created thoughts and emotions around relationships that I saw as a child. I had made a decision as a child that I didn't like men because of women complaining all the time about the relationship they were in. From this, I decided to focus on men around me and see all their positive traits. I made a conscious choice to focus on the good in my own father and to make more time to spend with him.

So how we relate to men or women in general has an impact on our own relationships and how we might be unconsciously pushing them away when you are trying to create a true love relationship. Don't think that your true love relationship won't ever have fights and arguments, because it will. Real true love means more about the connection you share with that person.

I thought that when I attracted my true love, that he would be just like me and know exactly what I want and when I want it. It doesn't work like that, they are still going to be different from you. But the love that you both will share between each other, will be unlike any other love you have experienced before. It will be so powerful, feel so good and so right, that you will both know that when you are with each other, that you only ever want to be with this person forever. My blog and main website page will explain my view and answer the question of "what is real true love?".