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There is lots of advice out there on how to save a marriage. It can be complicated and hard work. But the best advice when trying to fix a marriage is pretty simple (note, I said simple, not easy!) And that advice is that if you want to fix your marriage, the first step is to stop complaining about it!
First and foremost - this is the most important thing. Stop complaing about your marriage sproblems and your spouse. Stop complaining to your friends, coworkers, parents, children and, of course, your spouse.
Why is this so important? Because in order to fix a marriage you need to change the energy in your marriage. Constantly complaining about your spouse and what is wrong with your marriage is a mistake.Why this is very important is because if you just focus on your problems and everything that is wrong with your marriage recovering your relationship will seem hopeless. Why would anyone want to save a marriage that is full of negativity and bad feelings?
In order to avoid this problem you need to focus on the things that are right between you and your spouse. Every relationship has some good things going for it. Sure, maybe your spouse has some habits that drive you crazy but focus on the things they do that are good. For example, are they good parents? Are they thoughtful when it comes to dividing up household chores?
Once you have thought about some things that you appreciate about your spouse, tell them! This may be a crucial point because part of changing the tone of your marriage is about focusing on the behavior you do want and appreciate from your spouse, not the behavior you don't.What you need to do then is make the commitment to stop nagging about small details. Nagging and complaining drain a marriage. No one likes to be around people who like to compalin and nag, and the truth is that complaining and nagging don't make you feel any better yourself, anyway.
And finally, think about having some fun together. This issue happens when you set aside time specifically for the two of you to go out on a date and have fun. Set ground rules that you cannot spend your time talking about your problems, finances, children or other responsibilities. Try and reconnect just the two of you and remember why you fell in love on the first place. Again, this is all about trying to change the energy in your marriage. People will be more motivated to fix a marriage if they perceive it to be full of fun and love and appreciation, and not complaining and nagging. I was married over 20 years and I can tell you that focusing on the energy in my marriage was the best unhappy marriage advice I ever received.
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Someone might even want to take a 3x5 card and write down some of those good things and look at the list a few times a day. Sometimes those little reminders can help us to refocus on the good things or to refocus on solutions instead of on problems.
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