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Many Christian couples equate righteousness with a boring or almost non-existent sex life. Often, the the wife loses interest and treats her husband as though she is doing him a favor. This way of thinking is indeed contrary to God's will, and can destroy a marriage. Another sexual pitfall begins with husbands believing that only his satisfaction is important, again a huge misconception that is opposite of God's plan.

If your sex life has been reduced to a monthly, or less frequent, passionless gratuitous Saturday night ritual, or been reserved only for baby-making, here is help for revival! God's plan reserved sex for marriage, and He intended both husband and wife be fulfilled. Many marriages fail because sexual intimacy loses priority. Don't fall victim!

Wives are tired. Husbands have a second set of batteries when it comes to sex. Reconciling the two requires compromise from both. Planned spontaneity sounds like a contradiction in terms, but wives, this is necessary if you want to light the spark again. Schedule meeting your husband at home for lunch, without him knowing your intent of seducing him. He needs to feel wanted, instead of very last on the priority list. Keep in mind, that wearing lingerie isn't reserved for the non-Christian woman and is welcomed by most husbands.

Next, simplify your life. Even if you have small children, work on your first priority, which is your marriage. The best thing a couple can do for their children is show them a Godly marriage. Of course the children will be the center of attention some of the time, but often wives and mothers make a big mistake by transferring the intimacy they once had with their husband, to the children. Reciprocally, husbands withdrawal, further complicating the issue. One complaint wives express is that their husband doesn't involve himself with the children or the chores at home. If your wife is tired, help her out, the reward for showing interest and compassion will be worth it. In addition, wives should welcome help from their husbands, not criticize his efforts.Wives are commanded to respect their husbands. How do wives apply this command, and promote intimacy? Is there any help for christian marriages?

Husbands should stop with any type of behavior that degrades his wife's view of herself. One big reason women often lose interest in sex is because they lack confidence in their appearance, and feel constantly compared to the Victoria Secret types. Husbands are commanded to love their wife as Christ loves the church, and God looks at lust as committing adultry. How does a Christian husband not succumb to all the visual stimulation?

The good new is, Christian couples can, in deed, rekindle the flame and ignite new intimacy. It takes work, and you have to want to do it, but there are lots of good resources out there that are dedicated to developing skills for a stronger marriage.


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