Interesting question..."Can you convince a man to get married?" The fast answer and one that you want to hear is, yes, it's possible. The warning to this answer is what would make you want to? If you really want your man to commit and he's not showing any signs of wanting to get married, being pushy with him to ask you is only going to have you wondering if he would have asked you on his own?

While it's not suggested that you try to get him to ask you to marry you, swaying him to is a totally opposite ball game and one you might need to consider. If you are sick of waiting for this man to propose to you, then taking steps to show him that marrying you will be the best thing that can happen to him might be in order.

The big difference between trying to convince a man to get married and swaying him is all about the approach you take. Convincing him is not an easy route to take. You would have to spend hours and hours until you're blue in the face telling him why getting married would be such a great thing. You would reach a point where you would feel like a used car salesperson, trying to sell someone a four door car when they want a two door car.

In order to convince your man to get married, you're going to need to quit selling the idea and focus on how to get him to ask you. To do this, you're not going to focus on him. Instead, you're going to be centering on you.

In nearly all dating relationships, there comes a time where a marriage proposal is the next step in taking the relationship to the next level. If you're lucky that marriage proposal comes promptly. If you're not, you might end up waiting months, or even years. You don't need that to occur.

This is why changing your focus is so important. If you begin spending more effort into planning your future, and less time worrying and wondering about whether that future has him in it, he will see a big change in your attitude and get him thinking.

You must take a very subtle approach with this. The most effective way is to not be with him every night. Plan something else at least three nights a week. Stop sharing every little thing that is happening in your life. Hold back a little. This demonstrates to him that you feel somewhat unplugged from him. Finally, stop creating an intimacy that is reserved for marriage.

It's not going to take long for him to get the hint that you're not going or willing anymore to wait forever for him to ask for your hand in marriage. He will feel you slowly disconnecting from the relationship and him, which is a lot more effective than your attempting to convince him to marry you.