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Do we nurture love after years of marriage? A child asked his grandfather, "Do old people still kiss?" His grandfather replied in the affirmative, and he might even demonstrated that it was so. Certainly that Grandpa and Grandma were often seen holding hands.
Someone has said, "I want to find someone and grow old together." In order to do that, we have to learn how to make a relationship last. It has to be a relationship that will see us through thick and thin--good times and bad times. That lasting relationhip does not happen by accident. It will grow, and for anything to grow it has to be nurtured. So, do we nurture love? If we do, that will help the love to grow.
It is important to nurture our love through the years because any relationship needs attention. If we do not work on constantly meeting each other's needs, we are likely to drift into a situation where the marriage loses its "sparkle"!
When love is left untended, it has a tendency to grow weaker. It has a tendency to dim or lose its sparkle. It is quite tragic when a marriage began with great ideals, but then fell apart. Love have to be nurtured in order to grow.
Here are some ways to nurture our love and grow lasting reationships:
1. Continue to focus on one another's needs. First of all, we will want to meet each other's needs. The husband lives to please his wife. The wife desires to please her husband. The best way to do that is to meet your spouse's needs. We start by learning what our partner's needs are This could be accomplished by taking a piece of paper and each of you writing down what you think your top ten needs are. Then you can give the list to each other.
2. Actively show love and respect to each other. Husbands and wives both need love and respect; however, one study showed that many men responded that they needed respect and admiration more than they needed romantic love and affection. In the same study, the women generally responded that they needed romantic love and affection more than they needed respect and admiration. Check to see if that is true in your relationship. If it is, just knowing this may help you lift up your spouse in a more effective way.
If we want to know how to make a relationship last, we might be surprised to know that we can do something very simple, and yet it will nurture our love.
3. Show general consideration to each other. Yes, just show general consideration to each other. Sometimes we get so used to each other that we fail to be considerate of each other. In those cases, you will be frustrated if your spouse seems to be so kind and considerate of those outside the family, but he or she does not show the same consideration to you. What about you, though, have you lost that thoughtfulness for members of your own family--especially your spouse?
We have seen three ways to nurture love in marriage, so that we can have lasting relationships. It is good to learn all we can about nurturing our love.
If we focus on these things, we will find that the years fly by, and we can look back on a good life. That good life doesn't mean all the circumstances were good. There may even have been some tragedies along the way, however, we will have grown strong as we came through those difficult times together. It will indeed have been a great life.
Do we nurture love? If we do, we have a good chance of seeing that love grow. Often young couples want to know how to make a relationship last. Older couples can give them great examples of how to make that happen.
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