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How Do Make Myself I Fall In Love With My Husband Again?
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How Do Make Myself I Fall In Love With My Husband Again?

One of the questions I’m asked most often by women is “how do I make myself fall in love with my husband again?’.

For many women the realities of everyday life quickly kill the illusions of marriage they had at the beginning and the warm ‘in love’ feeling fades.

My answer is that to feel love for your husband you must open your heart.

  • The less you open your heart to others, the more your heart suffers.

    Deepak Chopra

When you develop a hard heart and close your heart to your husband it is impossible for you to feel tenderness towards him or to let your love flow towards him. He feels this and then finds it hard to act in a loving way towards you.

What Does Loving Your Husband Mean?

The first thing to look at when a woman is finding it hard to love her husband is what she thought her marriage would be like and how she feels that it is letting her down. Usually the woman has been brainwashed by television and magazines into thinking that her husband will fill all her needs and make her happy.

This is an impossible task for anyone as the responsibility for your happiness rests solely with you. Being with a person who gives you joy and pleasure can make it easier for you to feel happy but how you feel is a matter for you as it is your choice how you react to situations.

As time passes your husband will, like any human being, sometimes put his own needs before yours. For example, he might decide that he wants to get up early and play golf with his friends rather than lie in bed with you reading the newspapers on a Sunday morning, or he might decide that he wants to watch the football on Friday night rather than go out to dinner with you. The first time a situation like this occurs you will feel hurt and rejected and probably angry. You will feel that your husband loves you less than he did and values others more than you. To protect yourself you will close your heart to him. Rather than do this you could, however, choose to accept that your husband loves sport and let your love for him allow you to feel happy that he will be doing something that makes him happy.

Over time your husband also won’t always act as you would like him to in terms of helping around the house, caring for the children, visiting relatives, or a million other things. Once again you can allow your dissatisfaction to close your heart to him, or you can simply accept that no-one is perfect and focus on the good in your husband.

Don’t Close Your Heart To Your Husband

Don’t close your heart to your husband as it causes great distance in any marriage. Try and keep your heart open so that love flows freely. A closed heart kills marriage and is a major reason for divorce.


Street Talk

I met my husband in my first year of senior high school, Its not like i met him during my first year of being senior , it was more like we started dating during that period in time. It was the first time in my life i felt like my heart was going to explode when anyone touched me or kissed me. I knew i was in love with him and there was no way of saying that i wasn't and i also believed that he loved me just as much as i loved him. In more sense i could mistake what we felt as something magical. We planned our lives together thinking and knowing we are going to be together forever and nothing was ever going to tear us apart. But life being as it is, we woke up and reality set in. Although this month made it the 9th year since we have being together, last year was brought us series of problems. Professionally, i am a medical doctor and he is an art painter so there is no way on earth i will always be around because its the nature of my profession. I always made sure i spend most of my free time with him and not friends. As much as i love him, i also love saving lives so it was so selfish to ask me to choose. I will never ask him to choose between me and his art work because i knew how much he loved painting and how much he loved me also. O well that is all history just wanted you all know what caused our problem. I can go on and on telling how selfish he was towards me and my profession but it will be pointless. In the end i found out he was seeing someone else even if we were still married. I only knew about three months after they started their affair. And his reason for cheating was that he needs closure that i made sure i gave each time i was home with him. All that needing of closure speech could also be rephrased as he was tired of us and needed someone new after eight years of been together. I wish i told him he was never going to see me again but it was the opposite he ended us there and then. Call me crazy or whatever, i knew in my heart that if i had let him go like that i would never had found love again. A spell caster called Metodo Acamu help me cast a spell to bring us back together. I know it sounds hypocritical to even mention i used a spell to get back together with my husband because for goodness sake i am a medical doctor and i should know better than that but it true along with every other testimony about Metodo Acamu spell you have all seen on the Internet. Like most of the testimonies you may have read, i never intended on contact a spell caster but desperation drove me to am only glad i contacted the right one. He only asked me to provide four materials that i can not disclose which i was to mail to him through DHL or UPS but i decided to just send the total cost to him Because firstly my job does not permit me the time secondly some of the materials where not even found here in Chicago or the united state as a whole while other did not just go down with me to actually send via mail. But i to be sincere with you his spell worked. We are more in love than ever before just like when we first started dating and our relationship is more healthier than it ever was. Its been six months since Metodo Acamu help me get back together with my husband and like i said his month made it our 9th year of being together. I will his email contact here for mailing purpose { metodoacamufortressx@yahoo. com }

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  about 4 years ago

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  about 5 years ago

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  about 6 years ago
Thanks  

my name is grey bill in my life i never believe that great man like ogogodu can live in this world after i have be scam by a lot of spell caster i live in texas in USA i was in love with a girl call Annie she love me with all are heart so live happily and i love are so i now her told that we should go to the supermarket when we now got there she now told that she want to go and one of is friend i now waited for her she now came and told me that she is going home i was ask her what is happen she did not tell me so i now buy what i want to buy than when i now got home she now told that she did not to tell that she was in love with is form fiance and he had come back to her i tell her that he she going to live me after we have live for 4years she said yes and which she did and then i have being contacting a lot of fake spell caster whom have being scam me so i now told my friend he now told me that he we give me the contact of the spell caster who brought back his wife to him i now contacted this man this man now help me to get my fiance the man told me that my fiance we back to me in the next 24 hours and which was the time my fiance can to me and told that she love me and she can die for me so i now forgive her now we are happy now so people if you want to contact any spell caster contact ogogodutempleofsolution this man is real so this is email ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail .com or call him with this number +23478999655 now i am happy my love was back to me now so i grey bill is happy now so my love is back to me now on the 28/4/2013 who left me on the on the 3 of march i can now celebrate with my love thank you ogogodu

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  about 6 years ago
Thanks  

my name is grey bill in my life i never believe that great man like ogogodu can live in this world after i have be scam by a lot of spell caster i live in texas in USA i was in love with a girl call Annie she love me with all are heart so live happily and i love are so i now her told that we should go to the supermarket when we now got there she now told that she want to go and one of is friend i now waited for her she now came and told me that she is going home i was ask her what is happen she did not tell me so i now buy what i want to buy than when i now got home she now told that she did not to tell that she was in love with is form fiance and he had come back to her i tell her that he she going to live me after we have live for 4years she said yes and which she did and then i have being contacting a lot of fake spell caster whom have being scam me so i now told my friend he now told me that he we give me the contact of the spell caster who brought back his wife to him i now contacted this man this man now help me to get my fiance the man told me that my fiance we back to me in the next 24 hours and which was the time my fiance can to me and told that she love me and she can die for me so i now forgive her now we are happy now so people if you want to contact any spell caster contact ogogodutempleofsolution this man is real so this is email ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail .com or call him with this number +23478999655 now i am happy my love was back to me now so i grey bill is happy now so my love is back to me now on the 28/4/2013 who left me on the on the 3 of march i can now celebrate with my love thank you ogogodu

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  about 6 years ago
annie2  

Big Thanks to Dr Love Thanks God I found you Dr Love by helping getting my Ex-husband back because I dont believe i can remarried Him again after divorced him in 2011 but ever since the divorced am still deeply in love with my ex husband Christopher ,I really do love him very much with my heart . We have got together in 2008 and I divorced him in 2011 ever since then I have been trying to get him back while reading Prayer Books, The top relationship guide books Until Sunday that i surface on Google to seek Advice On how i can get my ex Husband back after divorced him 2yrs ago and i cant stop thinking of him and loved him then Google Recommend me to Contact Dr Love spell caster Email address Drlovespellcaster@yahoo. com Tel +2348038096203 , i did contact Dr Love on the same day which him Assure me that i would have my Ex husband back within 24hrs , i dont believe at first that Love spell work but it Come to Reality to me on the Next day when i saw my EX husband knocking my Door in the Morning and say he want to talk something serious with me Immediately he Kneel Down and give me ring that he want to marry me again Thanks Dr love for helping me get my Lover back and put smile on my face forever . Maria from Australia.ent...

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  about 6 years ago
toricater  

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  about 6 years ago
Greg15  

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  about 6 years ago
dbby  

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  about 6 years ago
Mosian1  

hi everyone out there , my name is Mosian and i am here to give you the latest gist about a very good spell caster that helped me get my girlfriend back after living me for more than 6years she came back after this great spell caster called wiseindividualspell@gmail. com who help me bring her back i am so happy today that she is with me again in life.

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  about 6 years ago
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