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How To Persuade Him To Marry You
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How to Persuade Him to Marry You

If you are like nearly all women you dream of that special day when your true love marries you, that's if you can persuade him to marry you. Once you meet Mr. Right, there's a breathtaking expectancy that comes with falling madly in love with him. You know that eventually there's a marriage proposal and of course a beautiful engagement ring.

So, what are you going to do if you still don't have a ring on your finger and getting married is not on his agenda? Maybe you have spent hours talking to him about how important it is for him to make you his wife. If your pleas are falling on deaf ears, it's time to look at the situation differently. There are two ways that you can use to persuade him to marry you.

>>>> The first way is not pressuring him...If you are going to succeed at persuading him to marry you, you have to stop pressuring him to commit. If he's made it clear to you that he's not ready to get engaged yet, and you keep pushing him for it, he will back away or worse break up with you. You need to loosen up on the married couple talk and on those subtle hints. This will help him feel less pressured in the relationship and will actually help him see marriage from a different viewpoint.

>>>> The second way is not giving yourself 100% to him...One major problem that's naturally occurring in relationships is when the Expectation of having a wedding turns into a really big issue is that the woman has committed herself totally. You might be at fault of this yourself. If you are always there for him, he sees you're his puppet on a string. The same goes if you have made it crystal clear to him that he's your life mate. Confessing your undying love to him is romantic, but it's not going to lead to a commitment especially if he's a little hesitant about wanting to marry you.

The problem in the reality that he recognizes he has you and that you're not wanting to give up on him whether he commits or not. This is the time to shift the dynamic of the relationship. Start living more as a single girl than one who's committed like a wife. Spend less of your free time with him and a lot more with your single friends. Given that a honeymoon doesn't look in your near future, go on a vacation.

Letting him see that you're moving ahead in a more solo way can go a long way in helping persuade him to marry you and he will seriously be thinking about marriage to you.


Street Talk

Another good one Connie....

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Barbara9  

interesting article

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