Husband distancing himself from you? I mean, is he becoming more distant than normal? All men seem to space out for short periods of time. (Actually they are just focused on their thoughts--most of the time--when they seem to be space out.) Is this lasting for longer periods of time than usual? If so, you probably do need to look further into the situation. One of your main desires may be to learn how to keep your husband happy. Well, here is some news--that is a lifelong project. (It is for him to keep you happy too.)

If your husband is becoming more and more distant from you, this can signal that some problems exist in your marriage. It could be that his thoughts are on someone else. Now, that would be a very serious problem wouldn't it? It could also mean that some natural distractions are taking place, and they could be easily corrected.

If you do not deal with the problem and an affair is involved, things are likely to just escalate. If an affair is not involved, and hopefully that is the case, if you just let things slide, you may find yourselves drifting so far apart that you will both wake up someday and wonder, "What happened?"

How to keep your husband happy is probably uppermost in your mind. So, when he seems to be bored, distracted, or indifferent, that does cause you concern. How can you solve such a problem when you find your husband distancing himself from you?

1. Assure yourself that an affair is not in the works. if it is, the problem can be solved, but it will be very difficult. Also, if he has been physically unfaithful to you, you may not even want to take him back. Either way, though, there will be much anguish in your life. Good news, however, many couples have come through affairs and have come out stronger on the other side.

2. If it is a matter of boredom, look at some things you can do to spice up your lives and your marriage. Plan special times together. Do something out of the ordinary.

Another thing you can do when you find your husband distancing himself from you is to embark on a program of your own self-improvement. Don't beat yourself up, but we can all improve in some place or another. When we quit learning, we quit growing. So, doing this will benefit your life in general as well as your marriage.

3. If you embark on a project like this, don't just settle for making things like they used to be. Since you are focusing on improving the marriage, why not focus on making it better than ever. Really, you can bring your husband's thoughts back to you. Work on becoming irresistible to him, and you will be glad you had this time that caused you to focus on improving your marriage.

Taking these steps can help you to begin solving the problem of what to do when your husband seems to be distancing himself from you. Actually, though, these ideas just scratch the surface. It really is best to learn all you can about how to keep your husband happy. Even the best of marriages have both parties interested in learning all they can about how to have a good marriage.