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Marriage Advice: How To Make Your Spouse Love You Forever
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Marriage Advice: How to Make Your Spouse Love You Forever

Two of the most significant pieces of marriage advice that I know are also the most simple and yet they are far more effective in bringing lovers and couples together than anything else out there.

Despite the relationship problems and marriage problems that many people are faced with, couples can make their significant other love them forever.

And it is easy. In fact, there are two simple pieces of marriage advice you can follow to make your significant other love you forever.

Many people go into a love relationship thinking that they need to do something spectacular or give their loved one expensive gifts to make their love relationship blossom.

But did you know that the smallest and simplest acts make all the difference?

In all love relationships, there are a number of small things you can do that will make your companion love you eternally.

My recommendation is to "keep it simple, stupid."

Marriage Advice number one: Greeting your companion at the door when he or she arrives home.

Several years ago, a woman who was married to a very wealthy man in the US found herself in a most disheartening position that would cause most married women to turn bitter and angry.

One day her multi-millionaire spouse asked her, “What do you do all day, anyway?”

This simple question was the beginning of the end for their marriage. Within weeks, her husband filed for divorce.

To prevent the woman from benefiting financially from the divorce, her rich husband's lawyers descended upon her like wild animals during the litigation and she dared not mount a challenge – perhaps that was the way the heavens planned it so that she would be led to the arms of the right man who would cherish her and make her happy.

Suffice to say that after the divorce and lawyer's fee, the woman ended up with six thousand five hundred dollars and her car.

For three months, she slept in the back seat of her car. Imagine that. You may ask how something like this could have happened.

The answer will surprise you. Statistics show that the more powerful a man is – a man’s power is his money – the more likely he is to employ a skilled barrister.

Hence, he is able to retain most of his wealth after the divorce, according to one study conducted in North America by a researcher from the UK.

Continuing on with the story, one day the woman met a gentleman.

He was slightly heavyset and balding. After she got to know him, she liked his personality and of course, he was taken by her beauty. They started a romantic relationship which resulted in marriage.

Each evening her new man arrived home before her. When she arrived home from work, her man would always greet her at the door.

There would be dinner waiting for both of them. Some nights he would rub her feet while they sat on the couch watching TV.

When you are watching a show with your significant other, do you become so absorbed in the show that you ask your significant other to be quiet? That behaviour could damage the relationship.

In the lady's own words, “This is the best thing that has ever happened to me.” She compared her new husband to her ex-husband, who was one of the richest men in the US at that time.

What did her new man do to command her love? He did the simple things that mean a lot.

If I may explain it this way: You are home. You hear your significant other's car pull into the driveway. Next you hear keys being inserted into the front door lock. You do nothing but go on with what you are doing: in this case, let's say watching television.

Your companion comes into the house. You turn to greet him or her.

Your companion sees you watching a show and snacking. Can you see how you may come across as though a show on TV is far more important to you than the person whom you are to love with all your heart?

Marriage Advice number two: Way back in 1992 while I was in Asia, I knew an American couple.

They had been married for forty-five years. I still recall those two as if I met them yesterday.

The wife told me something that her husband did. As she began to share the experience, her face lit up. I knew then whatever it was that her husband did must have left her with a lasting positive impression.

Apparently, before bedtime her husband would leave little notes under the pillow on her side of the bed.

Other times when she awoke to go to the washroom she would see a love note posted on the washroom mirror.

Other days, the note was left on the fridge door.

These simple acts cost you no money and they can make all the difference; they calm the turbulence and the whirlwind that could occur in your marriage.

If you are in a love relationship or marriage and you know your spouse or common-law companion will go into the shower before you or likes to wake up to have a glass of milk in the middle of the night, leave a note somewhere he or she will see it.

What should the note say? Imagine! You have just woken up at 2AM to have a cold glass of milk.

You see a note on the fridge door handle saying,” I love you” or “It is a blessing to have a man/woman like you in my life” or ‘You are the world’s greatest wife/husband.” Can you see how these simple act will make your significant other feel?

Try this simple marriage advice and you will make your spouse love you forever.

Street Talk

I met my husband in my first year of senior high school, Its not like i met him during my first year of being senior , it was more like we started dating during that period in time. It was the first time in my life i felt like my heart was going to explode when anyone touched me or kissed me. I knew i was in love with him and there was no way of saying that i wasn't and i also believed that he loved me just as much as i loved him. In more sense i could mistake what we felt as something magical. We planned our lives together thinking and knowing we are going to be together forever and nothing was ever going to tear us apart. But life being as it is, we woke up and reality set in. Although this month made it the 9th year since we have being together, last year was brought us series of problems. Professionally, i am a medical doctor and he is an art painter so there is no way on earth i will always be around because its the nature of my profession. I always made sure i spend most of my free time with him and not friends. As much as i love him, i also love saving lives so it was so selfish to ask me to choose. I will never ask him to choose between me and his art work because i knew how much he loved painting and how much he loved me also. O well that is all history just wanted you all know what caused our problem. I can go on and on telling how selfish he was towards me and my profession but it will be pointless. In the end i found out he was seeing someone else even if we were still married. I only knew about three months after they started their affair. And his reason for cheating was that he needs closure that i made sure i gave each time i was home with him. All that needing of closure speech could also be rephrased as he was tired of us and needed someone new after eight years of been together. I wish i told him he was never going to see me again but it was the opposite he ended us there and then. Call me crazy or whatever, i knew in my heart that if i had let him go like that i would never had found love again. A spell caster called Metodo Acamu help me cast a spell to bring us back together. I know it sounds hypocritical to even mention i used a spell to get back together with my husband because for goodness sake i am a medical doctor and i should know better than that but it true along with every other testimony about Metodo Acamu spell you have all seen on the Internet. Like most of the testimonies you may have read, i never intended on contact a spell caster but desperation drove me to am only glad i contacted the right one. He only asked me to provide four materials that i can not disclose which i was to mail to him through DHL or UPS but i decided to just send the total cost to him Because firstly my job does not permit me the time secondly some of the materials where not even found here in Chicago or the united state as a whole while other did not just go down with me to actually send via mail. But i to be sincere with you his spell worked. We are more in love than ever before just like when we first started dating and our relationship is more healthier than it ever was. Its been six months since Metodo Acamu help me get back together with my husband and like i said his month made it our 9th year of being together. I will his email contact here for mailing purpose { metodoacamufortressx@yahoo. com }

  about 7 years ago

My Name is Vicky..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this powerful man called Dr Orissa. My husband divorce me with no reason for almost 3 years and i tried all i could to have him back cos i really love him so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 4 years with one kid and he woke up one morning and he told me he’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when he came back from work he tender to me a divorce letter and he packed all his loads from the house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have him back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 3 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that his with a girlfriend and that his girlfriend is the reason why he left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring him back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 24hours..24hours later,he called me himself and came to me apologizing and he told me he will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with job promotion spell 3 days later i was promoted at my place of work..Now we are very happy been together again and with our lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way can reach him via email:orissatemple@yahoocom

  about 8 years ago

Nice advice Ernest, the simple things tend to matter the most if done with love.

  about 1 decade ago
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