Marriage Is Like A Castle
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Someone thinks marriage is like a castle, the outside people want to come in , while the inside people want to come out. We do not know why there is such an argument , always think from love to marriage , like a ripened fruit , is the most normal thing, it may be that the most common thing , but it is the most difficult thing to grasp . Some people says, "Marriage is the tomb of love ," we do not know why a romantic story with a bad ending.

There is no shortage of friends around divorce , we often heard tell the tragic history of their marriage , can not help but have some sympathy and frustration, I do not know why two good people, go farther and farther away from each other , live together without love , marinated no longer has happiness and sweet taste ? "Details defeated love ," which is a nude wedding in the classic lines , the reason is a classic, o because of this sentence to say the majority of people 's voices. Most marriages do not exist already in love , just because there are children have a responsibility , I do not know this life is a life or torture.

When we are in love, love is presented to the best of the best side , but when married , I feel no need to disguise , so all the shortcomings are exposed, both before and after marriage like a changed man like, in order to live together with happiness, we must understand each other , mutual tolerance , learn to overcome their own shortcomings , saying it is easy , but it is hard to do , because life in so trifling matter , more contradictory , more quarrel when family and marital strife became shackles , love will collapse , the family may also collapse , how many families are dispersed, not because of the life of trivia ,but the

accumulation of too many contradictions , eventually one day erupt and irreparable . Maybe a long time, no quarrel , is not noisy, but do not bother to quarrel , then learned of the Cold War , do not want to go to communicate , do not want to do unnecessary explanation , so more and more confused , depressed increasingly more , more and more indifferent lover , really slowly become the most familiar stranger.

For love, we are always full of imagination and often think of the other side too perfect, so once the other one is not as we want it to behave, we'll ask him to have to subconscious thoughts as we do, but people has their own personality and idea, it is difficult to change, so the contradiction arises, many people love and marriage are not satisfying, because the other side did not meet their demands.Marriage has"Seven Year Itch", according to the survey,it has been brought forward to the "five-year itch", this period is the most couples living contradictions arise when a marriage is always a period of time to adapt to the run-in. Some couples live on its hands, and some people may be looking for passion, not necessarily for what is romantic, but to retrieve abandoned by love yourself, when looking for the sweet love, looking for unfamiliar fresh, so now popular online dating, how many people are in this way, both online and do not destroy each other's family, but also to get their needs. Shallow soul, is to get emotional during the game, with affectionate, and is to take marriage lightly. In fact, sooner or later we will understand, if you can not learn how to run their marriage, they never have a happy life.

Happy families are the same, unhappy family is unhappy in its own, and everyone has this cupboard, when love went into the marriage, maybe love is desalination became family, no longer have the passion and romance, only to each other and support each other up. Love is two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, many of them are living in the conflict because both families and produce something, but why such trouble is unavoidable, so only learn how in marriage tolerance, maybe it would be better off.

We will find that we treat strangers will be very polite, friendly and will treat a friend, even if there is what makes us unhappy, sometimes laugh, but for the family, not the same, no matter big and small will be shouting, not conceal resentment in mind, do not worry about the feelings of his family, it is because the family is the people closest to us, we will be infinitely tolerant of people, because they know they will not leave, so there will be no fear, the relationship between the family is a difficult to grasp the problem, you should have a correct understanding of the attitude, attention along the way everything can not be too much fuss, some tolerant, some will be confused better. Life is a learning, to keep continuous learning will have satisfactory results.

"Ten years of cultivation the same boat, a hundred years of cultivation bed can sleep," we must learn to cherish together into the marriage, that person, as long recognized that life is not satisfactory, and love is not perfect, we would not be demanding their own, demanding others . No one is perfect, we have to love each other's advantages, but also love each other's shortcomings, only mutual adaptation, mutual tolerance, mutual respect, to get home to truly become a haven of rest to the so-called siege happy life. If you love life expectations of marriage smaller, contentment some, maybe we will be happy.

When we are in a marriage, feeling tired, we should look back and think, why did that and he (she) entered together this siege, when love Why willingly inclusive but now it does not want to forgive? Is the face of trivia and unpleasant altercation life, we can let go once vowed to love and abandon the promise? If two people really want the same evening to watch the sunset of life, it would have to remember that love is responsibility, love is tolerance.


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