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My Wife Constantly Criticizes Me -- Why What You Do Right Now Could Mean The Diffrence In Saving Your Marriage, And Your Dignity!
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It's a terrible thing to hear a grown man say, in embarrassment, my wife constantly criticizes me and belittles me.

Of course by the time my friend Tim told me this, I already knew it. I'd witnessed it with my own eyes plenty of times.

Unfortunately the reason I noticed more than other people was because I often had the same problem. My own wife would constantly criticize me as well. It was embarrassing and demeaning and I hated it. So I knew how Tim felt.

What You Need to Know If You're Saying My Wife Constantly Criticizes Me

But here's the thing. If you're in this position it's better that you learn sooner than later what it took me far too long to learn.

By the time Tim had confided in me what I already knew...luckily I had the answer for him. I was able to explain to him, and tell him exactly what I had learned for myself, and what helped actually save my own marriage.

Tim figured that I would sit and trash talk his wife a little bit with him. You know...trash talk women in general. He was a little bit surprised, and probably a little miffed at first to find out that I had no intention in doing so at all.

I wouldn't do that because the truth was that if your wife is constantly criticizing you...it's because she's lost a ton of respect for you. As well, maybe more importantly, she's lost something else that's even more critical, and it's the last thing that you'll ever think it is.

She's lost her ATTRACTION for YOU.

That's right, she's not attracted to you any longer and in a sense, criticizing and belittling you is her way of striking out at you. She's striking out at you because frankly she's disappointed in the man that you've become...or more specifically the man that you've failed to become.

This all seems so harsh. Tim thought so too. I could see his posture dwindling, as if I'd just punched him in the stomach with a Mike Tyson left hook. What I was telling was in a way confirming his worst fears that he was filling about his wife. He was beginning to get the feeling that his wife was falling out of love with him. Unfortunately what happens when a wife falls out of love with her husband is that she usually replaces that love with someone else.

Tim had heard me say that before about other men and their marriages. I suddenly felt bad about ever sharing that with him, but at the same time...he needed to know. He needed to know because it created a sense of urgency in him to remedy the problem that he was facing.

He now knew that saying my wife constantly criticizes me was just a symptom of more to come if he didn't do something soon.

I explained to Tim that he simply needed to start increasing his wife's attraction level for him. He needed to start to become the MAN that she actually didn't even know that she wanted him to be.

Sounds weird right? Well the thing is that your wife has been programmed with years and years of evolution and DNA. This is what subconsciously what drives her attraction. This gets down to the core of her attraction, from the cave women days. Your wife wants a cave man who's in charge and leads her.

She certainly doesn't want a wimpy guy who kisses her butt, so don't become that. It's time to man up, and start increasing the attraction level. You can find out how if you click here.

Doing so will assure that you never again have to worry about being in that embarrassing position of saying my wife constantly criticizes me.


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