Do you feel like your marriage is on the verge of divorce? Have you wondered what happened to the two people who were so in love with one another not so long ago? Do you feel like you've lost your best friend as well as your spouse in the process? Do you want to get your marriage and your life back on track? No one knows all the secrets to marriage success but there are a few that should be much more widely known than they appear to be. Divorce rates are soaring around the world. Maybe it's time to start exploring some of these secrets and see what a difference they can make in your marriage. Are you ready to learn what can change your marriage forever?

Believe it or not there are seven secrets to marriage success that can have a profound impact on your marriage and your level of happiness within it. Not just your happiness though. If you really want to have a successful marriage both of you are going to have to do a little bending and giving in the process. The more you bend though, the more you're going to discover that the act gives you so much more and not less.

In fact, that's one of the biggest secrets to successful marriages. The more you give in marriage, without the expectation of getting something in return, the more you actually receive. But, that's a bonus secret that comes about as a result of the success and not one of the secrets to marriage success we'll be discussing here. Once you master these seven secrets to marriage success though your marriage is going to be well on its way to marriage heaven and you won't believe the changes you see. You'll be able to leave all concerns about needing to get your ex back or suffering through divorce behind you.

Here are the seven secrets you've been waiting for.

1) Get rid of all your individual and often unrealistic expectations and build new hopes and expectations as a couple.

2) Practice speaking kind words well and often – you'll be surprised by how often you will receive them in return.

3) Have a positive outlook – it's contagious.

4) Discuss small problems and disagreements before they become major problems and points of contention in the relationship.

5) Speak positively to and about your spouse and you'll think positively about your spouse as well – not to mention your spouse will think positively about you too.

6) Flatter your spouse often. Let your spouse know he or she still rocks your world.

7) Dress up and look nice for your spouse every once in a while. It matters whether your spouse tells you so or not.

These are seven small secrets for marriage success that can make a world of difference but there are still bigger lessons to hold onto. If you want to know how to save your marriage or make your marriage work better than ever before you shouldn't stop with these simple tips.