Whenever you have in your mind to do something that means the world to you, you must follow through or else you will not be happy with yourself. If you are constantly thinking, "I need real tips on how to get my wife to love me again", then that means you really want to work it out with your wife.
And honestly, it takes a real man to be real with hisself in order to really understand what it will take for him to fix his broken marriage. As hard as it may seem, it is actually easier than you think. You will first have to make the right first impression.
If you have already made the wrong first impression, and I'm talking about the first impression after you messed up and it made you think your wife doesn't love you anymore, then it is ok. There is a way to fix it, but you will have to be serious about winning your wife's heart back by sticking through untill the end.
I know sometimes life is hell and you can not control certain emotions, but if you cheated on your wife, then you have a lot of work to do to make her fall for you again. Don't get it twisted. She still loves you, she just can not trust you at the moment. Either way it goes, regardless of your situation, there are specific rules to follow.
Here are a few things to consider, especially if she is not talking to you or you split up.
1. Do not constantly call her phone trying to explain you have changed or tell her your feelings.
2. Do not spy on her (Facebook or physically).
3. Stop trying to buy her love.
I mean, crazy as it might seem; doing any of these things will annoy your wife. Why? Because, the typical guy does these types of things. It is up to you not to be the typical guy. You have to trick her into loving you again.
No! I am not saying you should manipulate her into falling in love with you again. What I am saying is that, you should:
1. Agree with her
2. Understand her
3. Respect her
4. Acknowledge her pressence and hard work
5. Still continue to be there for your family
6. If you say you're going to do something, do it
Doing these little things will not only change her mind about her feelings for you, but she will realize that she can trust you again.
Ok. I know you may be confused on how to go about doing these things and it's ok. Sometimes people get marriage counseling just to help them with the process. Shoot, I know a ebook, "Magic of Making Up" that has help a lot of marriage couples get back together again. It just depends on your preference. Stop making excuses, just go for it and spark the magic of making up with your wife.
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