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Using The Law Of Attraction In Relationships
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Using The Law Of Attraction In Relationships

The Law of attraction states that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results. This can be summed up as likes attract likes.

For the Law of attraction to work in relationships you must relinquish any negative beliefs about who you think your partner is and how you want him/her to be. Embrace a new understanding of your partner.

How do you use the Law of attraction?

  1. Focus on what you like about your partner: Because like attracts like, the more you focus on what you like on your partner the more you are attracted to him. This way you will always remember why you are in a relationship with your partner and will help you to accept them the way they are.
  2. Focus on your inner self: You need to have a good relationship with yourself first, this way you will ensure that you treat others the same way you want to be treated, with love and respect. Change yourself instead of focusing on wanting to change your partner.
  3. Keep your options open: The law of attraction is the law of the universe so be open minded because perfection doesn’t work with the law of attraction.
  4. Don’t focus on what is not working: Remember you need things to work out for the best so whatever it is that is pulling you down, let go. When you feel you have done enough then it probably is a sign that it's time you let go.

The law of attraction is very powerful in relationships because it empowers you to attract what you want, by being selective rather than focusing on getting rid of what you do not want because if you don’t think it you won’t attract.

We all use the law of attraction in one way or another and in some case we are aware of it though most we are not. For example when you meet someone who is in a bad mood and because of your good mood all of a sudden the person is smiling and happy. An author named Ankur Sancheti says if you do not attract what you want to be, you will be what you are, forever.

The law of attraction can help you change and improve an existing relationship if you choose to focus on good. Remember you already influence others according to the energy you flow. In all that you do make sure you are happy doing it. Always think positively and you will attract positive results.


Street Talk

Good article you have given me some things thing to think about.

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  about 7 years ago
  

Thank you James

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  about 7 years ago

Great article, very well explained! I truly enjoyed reading it.

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  about 7 years ago
  

Am glad you enjoyed it, thank you for reading.

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  about 7 years ago

I liked this,well laid out, well explained. greatly informative

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  about 7 years ago
  

Thank you Josh.

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  about 7 years ago

I don't know but I guess I used this method to attract my wife hehe...

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  about 7 years ago
  

I like

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  about 7 years ago

Thinking positive is always the way to go. I've often thought that there are two rules to a happy marriage. 1. Realize it's not your spouse's job to make you happy. 2. Act like it is your job to make your spouse happy.

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  about 7 years ago
  

Steve, those are very important rules to always consider in any relationship. Thank you for your thoughts.

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  about 7 years ago

thanks for this good article. positive thinking is everything just as loving yourself. You are what you attract.

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  about 7 years ago
  

Amen to that.

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  about 7 years ago

Good one Jane. I have found being focused in the right direction really makes a difference.

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  about 7 years ago
  

It really does help. Am glad you like it. Thank you

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