Preparation is inevitable key of successful marriage. Today, many put more effort with all that is needed just for the successful wedding but little or no idea of marital sustainability. Wedding is just a day step of being "weld together" in marriage tagged with simple question: what is the ultimate value in this relationship?

Some look for beauty/handsomeness, some for position, power or prowess, while others value money and material things only few marry for the purpose of love and peace of mind. Marital sustainability is characterised by certain features which centralised on love.

KEYS TO SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE 1. COMMITMENT: Is an essential ingredient in love that would sustain marriage. Commitment show the ability to care for someone else by gradual naturing of feelings and thoughts until the decision affirm great value to us. The commitment enable couples to realise what bind them together rather than enphasizing the area of their weaknesses and difference. Beauty, riches, position may bring couples together, but determination and commitment sustain the marriage.

2. COMMUNICATION: For any meaningful relationship, communication involves a strong desire and determination on both sides to understand and be understood. Many imagine or just take it for granted that their feelings are automatically understood. This is very serious mistake and it enstranges spouses from each other because each assumes that the other person is delibrately refusing to respect his or her feelings, whereas those feelings are not known. Through communication both parties reveals their feelings and view about issues and act with better understanding. Each couple should seek the best time to chat- while strolling, on the bed before siesta and whenever is most convinient for them.

3. CARING: A responsible mate would show the continous interest in each other's physical, emotional and spiritual welfare. The physical interest encouraged supportive gesture in physical conditions. Emotional welfare enables the value sharing and concerns which brings vital link of understandings. The the spiritual welfare enable God presence to dominate the growth of love in couple's lives.

4. CONCENTRATION: There are lots of distractions around a newly wedded spouses which can be overcomed by concentration. The distractions may come from the old friends, in-laws, business colleagues, activities and even job may bring separation into marriage. Probably more jokes have been invented about some in-laws relationship in the affires of young couples especially in handling delay in marriage. Amazingly, businesses and activities has brought separation in some home with lack of time with the family and all these is not governed with legalistic rules and regulations only with concentration.

In conclusion, there are many others ingredient that "weld" couples together into successful marriage, these involves: Trust, Dignity, Respect, Responsibility are all founded on these keys of successful marriage listed above. Note! Marriage can make or marred destiny....no separation after "welded", therefore choose wisely!