Are you in a marriage what you think my wife doesn’t love me?
It’s pretty heart breaking isn’t it? Maybe even more than you thought it would be.
Many times when we’re having problems in our marriage as men, we put on the tough guy act – even with ourselves – until it happens. Things change quite quickly once you realize oh my gosh, my wife actually doesn’t love me anymore.
What To Do If You’re In a Marriage Where You’re Saying My Wife Doesn’t Love Me
Now there’s a lot that may or may not being going on here. What I mean is that there is that remote chance that you’re looking too into this. Of course there’s also that chance that you’re right, or that your wife actually told you, “I don’t love you!”
You of course would know that more than me…
But either way, there’s a ton that you could be doing differently that could make your marriage a much happier place to be in. But for that to happen it means that you have to start taking some responsibility, and some action on YOUR part to turn things around.
You can’t really control what your wife does, but what you can do is influence how she feels about you. And no, in no way am I about to tell you to start kissing her butt, buying her gifts, or any of that stuff you’d normally hear.
Nope! I’m going to tell you that you’ve lost…or maybe never had…the qualities that women need in order to be attracted, and be in love with a man like you want your wife to be. While that may sound like bad news, it’s actually good news…because it means that you can totally turn this around.
One thing that you may have never been told, or learned because society often tells another story, is that what women truly want is a leader. They want what some would call an ALPHA male. And when a husband doesn’t show those qualities of that type of woman, then he usually ends up like you saying my wife doesnt love me.
Have you ever noticed that most people think that it’s just normal for feelings to deteriorate after a while in a marriage? Most people think that after marriage, all of the passion is just supposed to go away. The sex is supposed to stop, and the attraction is supposed to just be something of the past.
The honeymoon is just over.
But does it have to be?
Absolutely not! The honeymoon ends because people stop having the qualities that one another was attracted to. Men lose their status as the alpha male…or the leader…and the wife simply doesn’t respond to that man anymore like she used to.
It’s not that she’s not attracted to you anymore, or that she doesn’t love you anymore, she simply doesn’t see you as the man that she was once deeply in love and passionate about.
But you can change that. You can turn into the man that she…from way down DEEP in her DNA, down to her core is attracted to. It’s about becoming a real man again (without turning into a jerk, and while having an amazing time). It’s being able to say my wife is ultra attracted and turned on by me, is passionate about me again, and never having to say my wife doesnt love me again.
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