How To Deal With Rejection From Women
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How To Deal With Rejection From Women

What if you could finally be able to talk to any women you want? What if you could learn how to deal with rejection from women in a way that you will welcome it? Today I want to show you how you can finally get over the fear of rejection completely. Fear is not real, it is only the perception of your reality that makes it scary.

Don’t know how to deal with rejection from women? Are you one of those guys who stand in the bar just looking at beautiful women? Are you not talking to the ones you like? Read this article and open your mind to a new perspective. It will transform you into a machine when it comes to finding the courage to talk to any women.

What The New Way Of Thinking Can Do For You

I used to look at the word rejection with a lot of pain. I used to just look at girls from a distance but never had to courage to talk to any of them. Why? Because I might get rejected and will look stupid in front of everybody around me! It would be embarrassing and it would hurt my self-esteem. With the new way of thinking, I learned how to deal with rejection from women. Today I can say that I go up to any women at the bar or club. I welcome whatever happens, instead of not talking to anyone at all. I am unattached to hoping they say yes because either way, this experience will benefit me.

The New Way

The new way of thinking understands one simple principle. Suffering and pain of an experience are only created through the mind. Your own mind and how you perceive getting rejected by women is the number one thing preventing you from talking to any women you want. And I am going to show you how to change that.

How To Make The Shift

What is the key to making the shift into the new way and how to deal with rejection from women? There are always two sides of a coin!

  • If there are drawbacks from getting rejected by women than there must also be a benefit.
  • If there are negative sides to getting rejected by women than there are also positive sides.

And I know this might sound a little crazy to you, but you will see why a little further down this article what I mean by that. And remember in any situation in your life perceived good or bad, there are always two sides to a coin! The more you train your brain to see two sides the more you will feel grateful for your experiences. Once you see this you can move on without resentments or depression.

Know That Failure Is Inevitable

Before I help you recognize some benefits I have to remind you that failure is inevitable. Because we want what we can’t have, otherwise it wouldn’t be valuable to us. But successful people see the benefits from getting rejected and failing in life. The most successful person failed more than everyone else.

Benefits From Getting Rejected By Women

  1. You make the other person feel good. Either way, if she likes you or not, she is going to feel good about you going up to her.
  2. You make yourself feel good because you made someone else feel good. Even though not quite visible, but it is there.
  3. If you are confident after she rejects you, other girls will see you and you will have more chances with the girls around her.
  4. You will become better at talking to women. As you fail and get rejected you will learn what works and what doesn’t work from your experience. There is no better method of learning out there.
  5. Rejection won’t matter to you much anymore. Believe it or not, after getting rejected for some time, getting rejected won’t mean as much to you anymore. Remember Rocky Balboa?“It ain't about how hard you hit, it is about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much you can take and keep moving forward, that is how winning is done!”
  6. You can make a new friend. Even if she rejects you, there is still the possibility that wants to be your friend. And she might have other friends that want more than just be a friend to you.
  7. You will become more confident. After a couple of rejections, you will realize that there is not much to going up to a woman. You will become less self-conscious and less nervous.
  8. The actual chance of getting her number. Yes, you will never be with her if you never, at least, give it a shot. Your chances are higher if you do, even if you get shut down more often than not.
  9. You can feel more of a real man. At the end of the day, you can call yourself a real man. You can feel good about yourself because you took action and you didn’t give in to your fears
  10. You will get to know yourself better. When someone rejects you it forces you to reevaluate yourself. Instead of always being ok with where you are at, it makes you want to become better.
  11. You get to be more fearless in other areas of your life. This is simple, one you have more courage in one area, you are going to be more courageous in other areas of your life.
  12. You will feel more alive and life will be more exciting. You can either do nothing, which what most people do and feel nothing, or get rejected and start feeling something. There is always more adventure and possibility from getting rejected.
  13. You can help someone else find courage. When you go up to a woman and get rejected then you can be a role model for someone else to find the courage to do it themselves.
  14. You will get more results and success with women. This is not an immediate benefit, but if you take more action you are going to get more results, period.
  15. You will be more motivated. When you feel pain and rejection you are more motivated to get results. You will be more motivated to find a different way to approach and to talk to women.
  16. And because of Nr.15, you will become more interesting. You will find new ways of doing things that no one else does and you will get more girls to talk to you after a while.
  17. You will connect to more successful people. Like attracts like. Your energy will change and you will attract more people in your life who are just like you. You will take more action and act like a successful person. You will connect to more successful people. Those successful groups you will connect you to more successful women that you will want to be with.
  18. You might meet the women who rejected you again. Sometimes women rejected a man, but then later one, because you were confident about her rejecting you, she regretted her decision and will be more likely to give you another shot later on or at another time. Or she might have a boyfriend she didn’t tell you about. Then when you meet her again, she will be open to you because you were not an asshole when she rejected you.
  19. You might get a hug. This is kind of a joke, but yeah you might get a hug by a hot chick for at least having the balls to go up to her.
  20. It will get easier to talk to women. It is like playing a video game. You will start to anticipate the game and so her response and her reactions towards you.

And much more…

I could have written down so much more because behind a benefit there is another benefit and a benefit and a benefit and so forth.

Conclusion

How To Deal With Rejection From Women is a mind game and so is everything else in life. You will still get rejected by women from time to time. But what you do about it and how you feel about yourself will be different. Some people make themselves victims and others choose not to, it is all perspective. Now that you have gained more perspective, what will you do?


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