How strong are you in facing your life most challenging situation?

As I write this, I know most of you would be thinking your own challenges. Tough, right? all of us have gone through or maybe, you are undergoing the hardest situation. For those who have overcome these challenges, you have a unique story to tell. I believe you have learned the most important lesson ever. And for those who are in the process, you may well be thinking and hoping that you would surpass that situation. You are anxious, terrified, disillusioned and abandoned, as if the world has broken apart. How do we face them? Is there any secret formula to overcome it? Why do we experience this? Can anyone be exempted?

Before dealing with our strength to overcome it, let us know the kind of challenges we are facing. The life most challenging situation where it may cause us to suffer. I'm thinking about two things, first, is the kind of suffering because of the wrong decision we made. And the second one is the kind of suffering because of the influences and wrongdoing of other people...both ways, we suffer, and face yet another challenge.

The first one requires self assessment, where we can deal personally and individually. It is self motivational. The challenge is in our willingness to change for the better. These are a wrong decision we made that we suffer the consequences, thus, challenging us to put everything back to its place. This situation may help us improve our inter-personal relationship when we have done the right thing.

The second is hard to deal because it is a suffering we experience from the wrongdoings of other people, irresponsible they are and may have caused more damage. Despite that we have been very careful, responsible and honest, we suffer because of them. There are legal procedure to deal with it, but our situation will never be the same again. A loss of someone dear to you, a loss of job, bankruptcy or anything worst you could imagine. How do we deal with it?

Our life spent are full of surprises, good things and bad things. People react differently in any particular situation. Some have overcome it, some don't. Some become bitter, some become better. With those two influences that brings our life to a real life challenge, I would like to leave it rather a question. I could not give you an exact formula, let us learn from the experiences of others. Your comments are important, if you could share with us your experience, this would be great opportunity to learn from you, thus helping us to learn one of the most important lesson in life... How to face challenges in life?