Damn! So you want to fix your marriage after cheating? I'm not not going to sugar coat anything and tell you that you didn't mess up, because you did. But there is still a chance for you to fix your broken marriage. There is still hope. In this article, I'm going to help you fix your marraige even after infidelity.

Keep reading if you really want to fix your marrage after cheating.

First of all, why did you cheat in the first place? Is it bacause of (1) lack of communication, (2) lack of affection, (3) lack of respect, or (4) you're not in love anymore? These are just a few types of answers youmight come up with. For obvious reasons, if you're not in love anymore, then why do you wan to fix your marraige after cheating? Yea, because you are still in love and you're not being real with yourself.

And that's what matters the most, that you are real with yourself. If you're not real with yourself, how do you exspect to be real with the love of your life? It's not possible. Don't think for just one second that the love of your life hates you. They're just heartbroken and mad. But just because they're mad doesn't mean they hate you.

Let's say for instance you chose lack of affection. If the love of your life doesn't give you affection and that's the reason why you cheated, tell them. Let them understand that you are sorry for what you've done and wish both of you can work it out. Ask them why they stopped showing you affection and ask for it. If that doesn't work then find an alternative.

If you've already done this, then you might want to find a marriage counselor. Most folks don't believe in marriage counselors, but to me they are a blessing. I don't mean get your friends involved in your marriage life, because sometimes friends or even family will give you mix feelings and you don't need that right now. You need to fix your marriage after cheating, right?

If you tell your friends or family you cheated, more than likely they'll shit on you and tell you that you deserve what you're getting. You don't want that, do you? Of course not, because you don't deserve what you're getting, not unless you're abusive mentally or physically.

Your friends of family won't totally understand your situation anyway, because you're probably not going to tell them everything. But with a marriage counselor, you'll tell them a little more than usual because they're job is not to judge you, they're there to help you fix your marriage.