Did you know that using the law of attraction means you can actually affect the way others are with you? I’ll answer the inevitable “free will” question in a moment, but with the law of attraction tips below, it is perfectly possible to change the behavior and attitude of people in your life. And you can do this without confronting them, without engaging in any interaction at all.

How Thoughts and Emotions Affect Physical Reality You may have heard about quantum physics. It’s a big topic of course, but the bit that we’re concerned with here is the fact that on a very basic level, everything is connected. You can do some research online to find out more about the experiments that have been conducted to prove this if you like.

You may also have heard of the experiments carried out by Doctor Masaru Emoto with water. I won’t go into detail here – you could look him up to learn more – but the upshot of his experiments is that thoughts and emotion affect water to the extent that when it is frozen, water that has been exposed to kind words and thoughts forms beautiful, clear, symmetrical crystals, while water which has been exposed to hateful words and thoughts forms crystals that are muddy in color and drastically misshapen.

The point of these observations is: if everything is connected, and one of the results we can see from this fact is that emotion literally changes the physical state of molecules in water…. and considering we consist of a high proportion of water… you can see where I’m going with this. Now, if thoughts, emotion and intention can affect the physical, imagine how much effect they have on the mental, emotional and spiritual.

How to Change Other People’s Behavior To change someone else’s behavior and attitude, you need to send… okay, this is going to sound a bit wafty, but bear with me…. you need to send unconditional love to them. Remember the water crystals – sending love and kindness to water changes its state completely, as does sending hate and negative thoughts. It does the same to people.

There’s a very easy way to learn to do this – with anyone – which I’ll share in another article, but understand that what you are sending to this person is not an emotion, it is a power. It may take a little time, but if you are consistent, you will eventually find that either the person changes, or you just happen to not be around when they’re in that “mood”, or they move on out of your life altogether (depending on what they’re creating in their own life experience). I know it may sound simplistic and even “airy-fairy” but I (along with many others I know) have used this method with a variety of situations and people, from an arch enemy to a difficult bank clerk, and the results have been incredible – difficult to believe at times, but consistent.

What about Free Will? No-one else can create in your life. Only you attract and create your life experiences. The only way someone else can contribute to your life is if you cooperate. Now, most of us cooperate without realising it, in the way we respond and react. The free will bit means that if you are only creating good stuff in your life, but the other person doesn’t want to change, synchronicity will be created so that you won’t be around them when their behavior is contrary to what you are attracting. In some cases, your subconscious and theirs will even arrange for you to not be in each other’s lives at all – you or they may get an opportunity to move away, change jobs, or any number of other possibilities.

All you need to do is focus on feeling good, and channelling the power of unconditional love (remind yourself of the water crystals), aiming it at everything – including the people you wish would change. It’s one of the most powerful law of attraction tips I can share – you have nothing to lose, just try it, and watch the magic happen!