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It has become more and more apparent to me that you just can't be nice to people, well maybe just some people. The nicer you are the more they take advantage of you. I try to be a nice helpful person. I try to do good things. I'm sure you can kinda get a feel for the type of person I am by the things I write about. I really try to be nice, do as much as I can to help where it is needed.

No one likes to get taken advantage of. For me I can handle it sometimes because I realize most people don't think the way I do. Boy it took me some time to come to that realization, trust me. They help someone out and want something in return. Well sometimes it is like that and it is fine, but sometimes don't you think its just nice or the right thing to do when you do something out of the goodness of your heart or just because it needs to get done no matter who does it. Well I have been doing these things my whole life. Not on a large scale mind you, but sometimes the little things you do are the most important and satisfying.

I do what I can when I can and if I can't or don't want to I say so. It should never make anyone think less of you when you tell them no you can't help whether you give them a reason or not. The one thing that bothers me the most is when people take advantage of kindness. When you do a kind thing for someone and they take advantage of you they in turn make you question yourself, when in reality you know you have done nothing wrong.

You should never take someones kindness for weakness. We all have different types of people in our lives for different reasons, but only a very low person will take advantage of someone. I try not to take advantage of people but I realize there have been times in my life when I have. I don't like to make someone feel like they have wasted their time on me.

But no matter what I will continue to be that kind person, weeding out the ones I know, and have proven to me they don't care about me just what they can get out of me. Well for some I am all out of kindness, but I will never stop being me. I do what I do out of the goodness of my heart, whether I get anything in return or not does not measure my level of kindness. How kind would you be knowing you will get nothing in return? Will you be the nice guy who finishes last?


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