The Law Of Attraction And Relationships Healed Through Deliberate Creation
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The Law of Attraction and Relationships Healed Through Deliberate Creation

“Be careful what you wish for because you just may get it”

That statement is not just a clever saying, it is very true.

Like many of us, I am an eager, enthusiastic student of the Law of Attraction.

I’m no expert on the subject, by a long shot. But I have been enjoying brilliant moments every morning watching Abraham videos, with my coffee in hand, and eating breakfast.

For those who are unfamiliar with Abraham and Ester and Jerry Hicks, Ester is a channel for entities, known collectively as Abraham.

I am soaking up the information like a sponge.

Whatever the source is, wherever the information is emanating from, it is inspired. And it has inspired me to grow, causing me to be cognizant of human talents and powers that I am happily embracing.

These revelations may offend some people who think such ideas are counter to what religions teach. I don’t feel that way at all, and trust that my readers also concur with what Shakespeare says, that there is more in heaven and earth than is dreamed of in our philosophies.

It’s exciting that religion and science are beginning to hold hands.

We humans are on the brink of consciously connecting to our vibrational selves. We are energy, afterall.

There are advanced souls among us who have mastered the Law of Creation. Unfortunately, I’m not one of them, though I am open to learning and growing through this new awareness. Will I ever master it? I don’t know.

Are we advancing spiritually so fast, that these Laws are now gradually being embraced as part of our beliefs, part of our culture, skepticism aside?

In the past, most of us have been creating our lives largely by default, not aware of purposefully directing our creation. We have not been fully aware of our abilities, nor have we fully understood the power of vibrational energy.

We are all completely capable of deliberate creation.

The “Secret” stopped short of explaining the full picture of the Law of Attraction. Important steps were left out, hence the reason so many people are exasperated trying to manifest anything, even a parking spot. It’s no wonder people are skeptical of the whole concept.

Understanding the Law of Attraction is not difficult from an intellectual standpoint. It involves quantum physics, in which thoughts attract their equivalent or vibrational match. It’s scientific. To master the Law in our daily lives takes a great deal of practice, particularly because we must learn how to stay in alignment with our thoughts.

The term “deliberate creation” is used to describe creating “on purpose” as opposed to creating “by default”. However, it is all about the Law of Creation.

Our thoughts are powerful. According to Abraham, the Law of Creation works if you are thinking about what you want, or if you are thinking about what you don’t want. The Law is indifferent. It doesn’t make judgments. It works on whatever one is thinking, period. When working with the Law, you can manifest a castle in Spain as easily as a sand castle on the beach. It is about attracting energy to you.

Yes it takes mastery. As humans, we are all capable of such mastery.

There are three parts to the Law of Attraction:

1. From a physical perspective, we project a thought, which is our desire. We ask to receive that desire. Whom do we ask? We ask the Universe, or God.

2. Then, we expect to receive what we desire. This is called belief. Ask and it is given.

3. We receive the desire, and think of it as already having been granted, because it has. This is acceptance of the desire.

On a non-physical plane, all three things happen simultaneously. All parts must be present to attract the desire and manifest it.

Bear in mind, I am a student of the Law of Attraction just like you. And like you, I have more questions than answers.

It’s tricky. Our culture is so action oriented, we think we have to do something in order to have the thing that we want. Yes, action is necessary, but action serves the thought, not the other way around.

Manifestation starts with an alignment of the desire (thought) and allowing it (acceptance).

You may say, I desire to have $25,000 in my bank account by Friday of next week. You have asked and it is given. However, if you permit doubt to creep in, you are not allowing, therefore you are not in alignment with your request.

We can sabotage ourselves in so many ways. If after asking for the $25,000, you think you don’t deserve it, that maybe you are not worthy in some way, or you’re being greedy, then you are not in alignment with the desire. These negative thoughts got in your way and confused the request.

Remember, we create through desiring (thought) and allowing (acceptance).

How do people become ill? Again through their thought patterns, even if it is not conscious. You can’t lie to your cells. If a person is unhappy, or under a great deal of stress, then he is sending negative thoughts to his body and depressing his immune system. He may get a head cold out of the deal. But if the negativity (unhealthy negative thoughts) persist over a period of time, then a serious illness can ensue. The good news is if he created it, he can undo it and heal.

The Law of Creation is indifferent. Your thoughts attract their vibrational match.

Whatever you think about with intense emotion, you attract. This gets tricky because as humans, we are hardwired to emotion. Sometimes it’s hard to know what mischief our subconscious minds are doing. To be effective, we need to create a conscious and subconscious alignment. We don’t want our subconscious minds to sabotage our alignment. Our conscious desires and our subconscious intentions must match.

It’s quantum physics.

How does the Law of Creation affect our relationships? Through expectation.

If you think you have a handle on your friend, if you think you know his reactions ahead of time, and you are expecting a certain behavior from him, then that’s what you will get because your expectation will vibrationally match that aspect of your friend’s personality. So, if you think your friend is going to be ornery, then when you approach him, he may very well be ornery. If you have the thought in your head that your friend will be in a good mood, then chances are your thought will align with the affable part of your friend. Nothing can happen without a vibrational match.

So maybe we can improve our personal relationships by expecting a positive result.

Have you ever been driving in traffic and felt a love for humanity? The car to the right of you is trying to cut into the left lane, so you let him in with a smile on your face. All of a sudden, people start doing kind things for other drivers. They even smile. The other drivers’ thoughts are aligning with your thought vibration. The opposite can be true as well. It can be a nasty ill tempered trip just as easily.

So yes, based on the energy we project, we can definitely bring out the best in other people. Or, we can bring out the worst.

It’s important to always create in the present. If you desire to have something right now, then see it as in your possession right now. Ask and it is given. Believe. If you put your desire into the future, it’ll stay there. Do not be impatient because that can trip you up too.

Here are some helpful tips for achieving deliberate creation:

1. Meditate. Relax your mind and increase your brain power.

2. Be sure and clear about what you want. Feel the enthusiasm for your desire.

3. Send the Universe a mental picture of what you want. Put yourself in the picture. If you want a new car, see yourself happily driving to great locations in that car.

4. See yourself as having that condition or that thing you desire in the present. See it as happening “now”, and see it every day until it manifests.

5. Feel it. Emotions are powerful and play a huge role in communicating a desire to the Universe.

6. Show gratitude. Make a list of all the blessings in your life. Thank the Universe. Thank God. Appreciation will draw more blessings into your life.

7. Trust. Be patient. Do not worry. Don’t ask how. Know it is done. When you fret, you are sending a message that you don’t have what you desire, so the Universe will send you more of the same, which is “lack” of whatever it is that you desire.

The Universe is tuned in to your perception of your reality.

Keep yourself in a happy frame of mind. If you are tempted to feel sad, then change your mind as soon as possible. Sure it’s human to have low moments, but don’t stay there.

The Law of Attraction is heady. What an adventure it is to learn more about who we are, and what we are capable of doing. It’s exciting to see science and spirituality merge.

Now, I’m going to go create dinner. How about you?


Street Talk

Palsnett  

creative dinner, I like the idea! I guess when we allow us to be creative in any field, we can be flexible in bad moments. The law of attraction really works in a mind without stress!, so let's the creativity begins!!

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  about 7 years ago
  

Faith is powerful. When we have faith that we are loved and that we are deserving of the good, then not only do we eliminate those stresses that drag us down, but we are also free to create what we like, when we like, the way we like. Our power is to be used for the good of all and not to harm anyone. Our universe is unlimited. Thank you for commenting.

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  about 7 years ago

This is a great article on a topic that needs more exploration. So many of us are probably only scratching the surface. I am impressed with your interpretations and willingness to explain these topics here at SA. This is one I will come back to and read again another day soon. Very nice article Joan

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  about 9 years ago
  

Thank you Jay. I'm going to follow this with another very soon.

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  about 9 years ago

Yes, Joan, thoughts are so very powerful. What I love is that "advanced souls" are across all spectrums of life, in all religions, all spiritual practices and regions of the world. The Secret has been embedded in many traditions for centuries but sometimes the rhetoric/doctrine has blinded us. I had to wake up as well! Still tend to snooze at times and these kinds of focused articles are so refreshing. I love that you wrote on this topic! Well done. Awareness of the now in specific self observation is so important.

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  about 9 years ago
  

With all the nonsense happening in the world today, sometimes we have to remember who we are and what we are capable of doing. We are very powerful. Glad you got something out of my article Jill. Thank you for commenting.

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  about 9 years ago

Amen.

  
  about 9 years ago

Thank you Joan, It is right up my street. I too have gone into most of this in depth, to witness so many changes, to learn the power in this. I have written things on paper, which have worked. Wonderful article !

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  about 9 years ago
  

Thanks Ronnie.

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  about 9 years ago

Esther Hicks/Abraham was great in the original version of the movie “The Secret.” The movie exposed lots of people to the basics of the Law of Attraction but the edited version without Esther Hicks/Abraham downplayed the hard work that is needed to make things happen. Thinking or affirming things into being is not really how it works. But change is possible if we combine the Law of Attraction with action. It is amazing what can happen when we focus and put in the hard work. I continue to be impressed by the power of the universal message of the “New Thought” teachers of the last 100 years, and the relevance of their ideas today. I always go back to William Walker Atkinson’s book “Thought Vibration or the Law of Attraction in the Thought World” when I need an explanation of how the Law of Attraction REALLY works. Check out the new updated gender neutral edition at Hudson Mohawk Press.

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  about 9 years ago
  

Thank you Mohawk Press. I look forward to reading it.

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  about 9 years ago

awesome insight Joan.

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  about 9 years ago
  

Hi Shawn. Just interpreting the material that's been laid out for us.

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  about 9 years ago

Really good overview of the Abraham material Joan, I listen to the You Tube clips quite a lot. I don't know if you've ever come across Bashar it can be a little too way out for some people but he did a great video called 'Multiple realities to choose from' or something along those lines, definitely worth a listen.

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  about 9 years ago
  

I'll definitely listen to him Penny. The name is familiar. Is it channeled info? Fascinating. The whole subject is amazing. Thanks for your comment and input.

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  about 9 years ago

Yes it's channeled, I do think it's wise to be a bit discerning when it comes to channeled information though as you never quite know where the original source is coming from, some of it can be misleading. I think you just need to trust your intuition and take what information resonates with you.I've found the the Abraham and Bashar material to be really helpful though.

  
  about 9 years ago
  

Thank you Penny. You really do have to use your intuition. I feel some of the channeled info is either phony or not helpful, even harmful in a way. Abraham is amazing. Now I'll check out Bashar.

  
  about 9 years ago
  

Penny, I just listened to a few of the Bashar vids. Wow. The information is consistent. He said the words "thought" and "belief" are the same. He's fascinating.

  
  about 9 years ago

Joan, yes it is fascinating, he's got a quirky little personality and a great sense of humor which I really like!

  
  about 9 years ago
  

Maria, it is mind boggling. You, of all people should delve into Law of Attraction. Many people learn about it because they think it'll make them rich. That's nice if it does, but the connection between everything and "thought" energy is totally fascinating. Check out Dr. Masaru Emoto on water crystals. You'll love it. I think I'll do an article on his work.

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  about 9 years ago

What a great reading Joan! I am not really very much into this subject but lately Heather and you have urged me to start reading about all that. Good work!

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  about 9 years ago

Maria, It is life changing ! Do not expect it to happen like a cooked meal, in just forty five minutes. It is teaching yourself to break out habits and start new ones, which is usually said t take no less then three weeks. Looking forward to hearing your progress with it.

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  about 9 years ago
Lemuel  

Nice ending Joan. :) The principles here are definitely new to me. But I believe in the power of the mind as well as spoken words. A positive frame of mind can really go a long way even help give a long life (and possibly healing too) according to a new Israeli study about longevity personality. Great article

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  about 9 years ago
  

Hi Lemuel, Would like to read that study. Take a look at Dr. Masaru Emoto's experiments with water. I'd like to leave you a link, but it's not allowed here. Just Google his name. Our thoughts and emotions affect water molecules, and also affect our health. We're 70% water.

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  about 9 years ago
Lemuel  

Yes, I will search for his name. Thanks Joan

  
  about 9 years ago
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