This Article is About
changing your life
7 habits of highly effective people
way of thinking
best friends
little bit
point of view
few minutes
Low Of Attraction – A Tool For You To Use In Accelerating Your Success And Changing Your Life
Join 1000's of Authors at StreetArticles Today!

The first step in changing your life is to think at your past and present situation and take full responsibility of it.

As Stephan Kovey teaches us in his book, “7 habits of highly effective people”, we have to be proactive and take the responsibility for our life. That means we have to stop accusing anybody else for our own problems and failures and realize that only we are those responsible for what we are living.

Why is this so important?

Because accepting full responsibility for our life is nothing else than a strong evidence of our power to create our destiny. Take a few minutes and try this: Think a little bit on how is your present life. Are you satisfied with what you have achieved so far? Is there something you think might have been different? Analyze the triggers which determined what you are living at present. Be fair with yourself. It is worthy to take your time to make this exercise.

Keep practicing this new way of thinking. When something, good or bad, happens to you, stop for a minute and think: What and whose decision caused this? Could this event/situation have been different? How? Here is an example: Let’s suppose that you fail an exam. Before the exam, one of your best friends had came in your town and paid you a visit. You spend a lot of time with him instead of learning. You will be tempted to say that you failed because he came in the wrong moment. But if you think a little bit more, you will realize that the possibility to change the things was right in your hands. If you would have reduced the time spent with your friend, you could have learnt more and passed the exam.

When everything is clear for you regarding the responsibility, you can make a further step in understanding how things work in our lives. Be grateful for getting this new point of view upon your life and, now, focus on your future, because now your life is in your own hands and not in anyone else’s.

During the last ten years people have been talking more and more about a law which governs our lives, the law of attraction. If you would like to read materials about its scientific background, you may go on Google and you will find plenty on this subject.

The famous movie, “The Secret”, describes the way this law affects our lives, but without telling how exactly it works. A lot of authors came after it with explanations, tips, and methods on how to manifest absolutely anything by using this law in our favor (the law is acting permanently and is impacting us anyhow; the idea is how to take opportunity of it).

Since people started to talk about the magic of “the secret”, the main concern of everybody is if there is or not a certain way through which we could materialize anything we would like in our lives. A part of people don’t believe it arguing that it is insane to think that by focusing on something you can get it. Some other wants to believe, but concentrate mainly on the magic, fairy tale part of the problem. They start to imagine an object, let’s say a certain car, house or relationship. They focus every day on it waiting for desire manifestation and, after a while, they don’t see any change and begun to doubt that this law exists and could really help them.

Where are they all wrong?

Like the law of gravitation’s effect is that all the things on our planet fall down on earth, the law of attraction’s effect is that ‘like attracts like’. On very short, in the energy field we are living in, each particle is magnetized toward a similar one. The essence of a positive thought will materialize in a positive situation in our life. Many specialists and law of attraction coachers recommend us to visualize and get the feeling of what we desire: the feeling of having the car or the house of our dream or the feeling of being in the relationship we want to get. But why’s that? It is because we don’t have to think at the physical outcome of our wish, we have to think at the essence of what we dream to have or be.

The fact is that we don’t have the big picture of our life. From our point of view we can see only a part of the things. For instance, let’s suppose that we meet a charming person we would like to be with. We fall in love with him/her and start to see him/her as being the ideal partner we might ever have. But, as ‘the love is blind’ our perception is offering us an image that might not coincide with the real one. The specific person we are seeing to be perfect for us could not match our dream partner; God knows that and the law of attraction cannot bring it because his/her energy doesn’t match our thought.

By expressing our wish through the specific feeling and not by a certain material thing, we convey the right message and the universe will magnetize our dream to us. In our example, we will meet another partner and our dream will become true.

We need to understand very clear this issue. When we want to have of be something in our life and we decide to focus on our wish, we have to imagine how we would feel and to visualize how will look like our life when our goal will have been accomplished.

At the moment we will feel comfortable with our vision, the magic will begin. Everything around us will concur to bring about our desire. We will see opportunities we never saw before, we will meet the right people and we will get in the right situations. Everything will help us to materialize our dream.

Street Talk

No comments present
You May Also Like
Save Cash Without Changing Your Life
Daily routines. Daily habits. We all have them. These routines and habits shape how we live our lives. Are we living our lives in a manner that makes us happy? Hopefully. If not, is our quality of life really where we want it to be? If it isn't, perhaps taking…
By: Scott Oberholser in  Finance  >  Personal Finance   Jul 29, 2011  
  Likes: 6

Will You Go Make A Difference?
Life requires making lemonades from lemons, doesn't it? Or lime soda water from limes. We simply must take whatever happens and turn it into good. That's true in business, too. Our objective as a small business owner is to help people. Helping people takes effort over time. Lift people up…
By: Cynthia Ann Leighton in  Business  >  Entrepreneurialism   Apr 03, 2014  
  Likes: 10

Do You Need Help for Drug Addiction As A Result Of Taking Medication for Add Or Adhd
If you are trying to get clean from adderall or ritalin addiction then you might need to go to rehab. The fact of the matter is that many people who struggle with drug or alcohol addiction will never be able to get clean and sober on their own, and they…
By: Arthur Coburn in  Self Improvement  >  Addictions   Dec 26, 2011  
  Likes: 1

How to Change My Life
There are so many people throughout the world who are completely and totally dissatisfied with life. Most of the time, people are unhappy because they are lacking; either we don’t have enough money, love, friends, time etc. We never really stop to ask ourselves why or better yet “what can…
By: Maria Diaz1 in  Self Improvement  >  Personal Growth   Mar 30, 2011  
  Likes: 1

Is it Possible to Make A Big Change In Your Life?
We look to our life and we don’t like it. We dream to do something else: to enjoy our daily work, to have more money, better relationships, perfect weight, look better, travel… (Please add whatever else you might like!). Then, we decide to make a change. We read motivational books…
By:  in  Self Improvement  >  Goal Setting   May 20, 2011  
  Likes: 1

From Fat to Fit: First Day
Starting a new life is not easy. Starting a new life that involves sports, eating right and watching your intake, dedication and hard work in the gym, and proper sleep... opposed to, say, being on the computer 24/7, eating whatever you desire without any guilt, and always making up excuses…
By: Nick M in  Health and Fitness  >  Weight Loss   Mar 04, 2012  
  Likes: 3

Stephen R Covey: His Legacy Will Not Be Lost
Yesterday was a sad day for many, and especially for the family. Author Stephen R. Covey died from complications from a bicycle accident back in April. Dr. Covey meant a lot to me, for several different reasons. His self help information was considered a pioneering effort, and it helped countless…
By: Stephen Rush in  Writing and Speaking  >  Writing   Jul 17, 2012  
  Likes: 0

Changing Your Way of Thinking can Change Your Life
Do you feel like your running on empty as you chase your dreams of making an income online? Do you feel like your being ambushed every time you turn around? Are you caught in this illusion of thinking someone else has the ability to make you wealthy? Have you thrown…
By: Betty Hardin in  Internet and Businesses Online  >  Internet Marketing   Aug 27, 2013  
  Likes: 6

How to Think Positive - Tips to Get Rid Of Negative Thoughts
Think positive! Just do it! Sounds easy and it is. Negative thinking can seem like it is easier to do than positive thinking. Many people tend to believe that positive thinking requires more effort and feel that negative thinking is easier because it’s something that seems to come “naturally”. Well…
By: Natalia Storm in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   May 13, 2016  
  Likes: 0

A Daily Ritual You Must Adopt!
Hello readers! I'm from Better Version of Me Daily which is a growing online community for self-development! The site has these great “Daily Ritual” posts that can really help change your life for the better! Here is a Daily Ritual you should adopt into your life: Upon arising in the…
By: Michael LaPoint in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   Apr 09, 2016  
  Likes: 1

The Positives In An Away From
Think positive and always look on the bright side. Focus on what you want. Whatever you think about the universe will send your way. Your thoughts become things. Rubbish. I have consistently focused on a new car (whilst still cherishing the old one for continuing to start each day) for…
By: Gemma Bailey in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   Mar 14, 2016  
  Likes: 0

Hypnotism Techniques You Should Be Happy!
At People Building we teach NLP to those is leadership and management positions and work with teams to improve sales skills. We also offer Neuro-linguistic programming training online and offer courses that answer the question: “Does hypnosis work?” Facebook banter reliably provides me with article based material and this month…
By: Gemma Bailey in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   Mar 07, 2016  
  Likes: 0

Dealing With Disappointment
There are different kinds of disappointment and depending on your own attitude and mindset you may experience the more severe kind more often. There’s the kind of disappointment that has you think “wow that’s really disappointing” and gives you a sinking feeling in your tummy. Then there’s the kind that…
By: Gemma Bailey in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   Mar 07, 2016  
  Likes: 0

Energy Healing Does it Truly Work
Energy Healing Energy healing, taking advantage of the body's own frequencies as a sort of option prescription — is being considered important by wellbeing professionals prepared in both eastern and western modalities of medicine. Also, science is moving down its forces: One 2013 study found that 10 minutes of energy…
By: Hussein Taleb in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   Jan 21, 2016  
  Likes: 0

Highest Paying Government Jobs In India
Dear Postulants, in this page we will provide you all the information about Government Jobs in India. Every one’s Dream after completion of their Graduation [Degree] they want to settle with Government job but due to high demand in government sector the peoples are not participating. Here we will show…
By: IBPS Adda in  Self Improvement  >  Positive Attitude   Jan 21, 2016  
  Likes: 0

Article Views: 1751    Report this Article